Totally in love with my best friend? creepy or normal?

So, the basic punch line is that I have fallen in love with my best friend and don't know what to do.
We are both 18 and I have known him for 14 years. Last fall when we went out he started to like pay for our outings and inviting me to stuff and so on and I didn't get the hint. I was going through a really bad time, so I really didn't think about the deeper meaning of him inviting me to a 30 Euro dinner. So around christmas, we went to my favorite sushi restaurant and then he told me that he was in love with me. Me, back then still going through some pretty rough stuff was not in love with him. I blew him off very gently and our friendship was on ice for 2 months.
The last few months we've been okay but the past days and weeks I started developing feelings for him, not bestfriend-ish not sisterly, romantic feelings and step by step I started falling in love with him.
At first I thought it was just a phase and that my feelings for him would pass but I realized that I actually love him, or at least I think I do. I haven't told him yet. I know for a fact from his best buddy that he's not over me, so the chance of the two of us getting together is like 99.9999%.
The thing is that it still feels so weird for me, I mean after that long time he's like family. I really do wanna take our relationship to the next level but the thought is still kind of weird because for such a long time he has been my best friend and not more than that. What do you say?

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  • Ya get at it, if you 2 can hangout all the time your relationship will be good and healthy.

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  • Yeah Randomjelly is right. Go for it.

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  • Go for it! Life is too short to be miserable. Even if you let things stay as they are...your friendship is already affected.

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  • I think it's normal, and that you should go for it. I understand people who feel differently: love that starts out as a flame and burns brightly just seems hotter than love that's been only lukewarm for 14 years, but I think you two are in a special situation: When you met, you were both only 4! You never had the chance to burn brightly, because you were always friends first. But what if you'd met him for the first time today? How would you feel about him? If you're answer is, "I'd be all over him like white on rice" or similar, then I'd say it's gonna work out, and you are two lucky, lucky people!

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  • Go for it, your best friend will turn out to be your life long partner.

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  • Nope that's too long to know someone first.

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