Too obsessed with a person

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I'm deeply in love with someone who is very complicated. I can't see if he likes me or not, it might seem as a little thing but it's really killing me inside. He's the only thing I think about, and makes me forget everything about school. I used to be a top student, with high marks and now I rarely even do my homework. The only thing I think about is how I look for him, where he is, does he like me? It's just not me, I never though I'd ever fall in love and be so obsessed with a certain person. But it's because he's special. Things that make me feel that he doesn't like me is that whenever we're alone (which is not that often) he's being all cold to me, he never starts conversation with me on msn just sometimes and when I do he's still being cold which he isn't with the others. He hang around with way too many other girls and is very popular. This really hurts me and I don't know what to do. I dont want my life to be ruined because of him, especially when/if he doesn't like me. What to do?

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    Normal to like someone, but don't let it take over your life. Your education is important. Sorry but, it doesn't sound like he likes you like that. But don't worry, if he's cold toward you he's not worth it.

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  • T1mbo
    12 years ago

    He knows you like him. Forget him and move on. I'm sorry to be cold but you're putting yourself in a very vulnerable position and you won't like the outcome. Just don't look at him anymore and consider him history. It won't work in your favor if you continue.

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  • Mastersash
    13 years ago

    not normal. u'll b ok, tho. np.

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  • kimmiek
    13 years ago

    Having a crush is normal, an obsession where you stop living your real life is not. Accept that he is not interested, move on. If you waste your time yearning for an impossible relationship, you won't be available for that really great one that could be right around the corner.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I am obsessed with a guy who is out of my league right now. Hatever you do, you can't force yourself to stop thinking about him. Find another hobby or make yourself busy. When you are distracted by a task at hand you will find yourself eventually forgetting about him. Keep your grades up because this dude is not worth it

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  • iLOVEmaxxieoliver
    14 years ago

    believe me, this is totally normal. I have problems with obsessions too, and its like crazy how much i love this person, then i hate them for good. idk... but heres the important thing- DONT LET THIS TAKE OVER YOUR LIFE OR YOUR EDUCATION. seriously, its for the better. and also, if he's smart, and you are a good person, he will one day realize that he likes you.. but who knows, then you may already be over him!? haha idk. that happened to me once, and im just like "shit, why'd u tell me this now?!" haha good luck:)

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Stay away from him and it'll be better.

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  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago

    I hate things like this. It's always best to get yourself out before you're too deep, but that's easier said than done eh?

    You'll get over this obsession/love in time. The answer is always time. There'll be a lot of pain and stuff, but that can't be avoided.

    Who knows, maybe later on he will talk to you and have feelings for you...but I'm guessing you've already thought of that. However, from what you've written, it sounds as though you already know that he isn't interested.

    *hugs* do as much as you can to distract yourself. Don't let this take over your life.

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