To what extent do you care about what others think of you?

I care about what everyone thinks of me. 69
I'm only concerned with that my loved ones think of me. 58
I only care about what strangers think. 14
I don't care about what anyone thinks of me. 34
I only care about what others think if it might affect me in some way. 130
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  • i don't give a fuck about that
    because im me

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  • Aleks85

    hmm i just don't give a fuck.

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  • Katywompus

    I only care a little but I don't let it bother me too much. I mainly get judged on my appearance. I'll admit I stand out a bit, too bad. Deal with it and keep on walkin. Have a nice stroll, asshole :)

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    • Shackleford96

      Now I am wondering what you look like :P

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      • Katywompus

        Oh, the mystery of it all! I can not say, however I could pass for a bad-ass surfer/biker. Does that help :)

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        • Shackleford96

          Hm, as in leather-wearing and/or tattoo sporting with optional piercings maybe? Lol.

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          • Katywompus

            Yes, except the leather part. People would think nothing of it if I walked off the beach with a surfboard (but I don't surf). People would think nothin of it if I dismounted or mounted a motorcycle.(But I don't ride) I'm not a butch type of chick, just strong and unique, in surfer kind of way, with a little twist of hardcore awesomenessssss :)

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            • Shackleford96

              I might just have a little crush on you then Haha! I don't know any surfers, but I am a rider myself :)

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  • chubbawubba69

    It would be nice to not care what others think of me, but in real life it isn't practical. What others think of you in the real world has consequences related to your career which affects every other aspect of your life.

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  • lelouch82

    Me? I only care what my family and friends think of me. Aside from that, I don't really give a fuck because I'm just being myself :D

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  • Stifler

    I used to care alot, (When I joined.) because everybody was accusing me of being some guy. But now I don't give two shits what anybody thinks of me. I am ME, and only I can accept myself. That became clear to me after I went on a revenge quest and killed a dark overlord.

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  • Melodeath

    I care to an extent.

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  • karmasAbich

    I care too much about what other people think. I "people please"

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  • A good question for discussion. Its practically impossible to not care what others think of you, if someone truly didnt care what others thought of them they would wear broken down sweat pants and other scabby clothes everywhere they went, wouldnt shower, or at least not regularly, wouldnt comb their hair, and certainly wouldnt stay in shape. Anyone who does those things are doing it to present a good image of themselves, and why do that? Because you care what others think of you, or really what impression you make on others. Everything in life is tailored around caring what others think about you, from career, to romance, to friendship. What others think of you is what makes up a reputation and your reputation is what defines you.

    With that being said its important to differentiate between what others think of you (their approval/disapproval) and your own sense of approval and feeling of self worth. You shouldnt let this be influenced by anyone around you. Only you can effect your own self worth. No one else. You reputation sadly is effected by what other's think, your self worth isnt.

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  • Ibelievethis

    I care very much about what people think and I think everyone does to some extent because like it or not other people have got to like you for you to get on, well try getting that job you want and the employer doesn't like you. I can't stand stupid statements like "This is me and if you don't like it then it's your problem. If we didn't care what people thought we wouldn't get washed in the mornings. Believe me we all DO care what others think of us.

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  • laurabarker93

    id like to say i dont care, and for the majority of people i dont. however for my boyfriend and friends, i like to make a positive appearance. its a complicated one!

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  • Wubwubwub

    I care a littl too much what other people think of me not always in a bad way tho.. just curious to know what other people perceive me as.

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  • tox

    I don't care what most others think of me.

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  • thecoldhardtruth

    I like to think I don't , however I really do.

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  • Sweetz

    If no one cared everyone would be looking like shit.

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  • equanimity

    I try to pretend like I care, but I sometimes forget to.

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  • Shackleford96

    I say that I don't care, and mostly I don't, but there is a tiny part of me that does care a little.

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  • DolphinAngel

    Well I ever tried not to care what others think which is also a device of me not to care... well but I guess I never come to the point that I really do not care about anything people think of me... There is still a little bit left^^

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  • We all care to some degree. Personally, I want people to think I'm physicaly attractive. I coudn't care less of what else they think of me.

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    • januarycurse

      Don't you think it's more important to be kind, generous, compassionate, intelligent, and trustworthy?

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  • I care a lot lol

    wish I was perfect

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    • Katywompus

      Oh don't be silly. You know nobodys perfect. There's no reason to strive for it. Hopefully as you get older you'll see that it really isn't that important what total strangers think of you. Its hard for some people though. And anyway, I'm sure somewhere down the road you will be perfect in someone elses eyes :)

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      • cool :)
        thank you

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old

    I care a lot about what loved ones think, even when it pertains to me. I couldn't give a rat's ass what a bunch of strangers thought about me though, really.

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  • dom180

    Too much. I still do what I want, but sometimes it can be damn difficult. I envy people who don't care at all.

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  • SoccerStud88

    anyone who says they dont care what others think of them are lying to you and to themselves.

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    • Katywompus

      We only care what you think of us. No need for us to deny that.

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      • SoccerStud88

        yeh well i dont care

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