To still be in love with her if she has a boyftiend

So there's this girl who I really love. She is beautiful in every way and she makes butterflys come to my stomach. The problem is that I could never ask her out because I felt like she was out of my league. Now she has a boyfriend that she loves but I can't move on because I'm still in love with her and it hurts and tonight I told her I love but it won't change anything :S why do I still love he and is there any chance or am I being desperate. I'm so confused :/

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  • ***disclaimer***(the answerer is not exactly in his right mind so BEWARE!!!)

    "tonight I told her I love but it won't change anything :S" what do you mean did she tell you it won't change anything? If she did, well, read on, (if she didn't read on still)

    "why do I still love he and is there any chance" well, love's different for different people, for some it's a as far as i know, a happening, for some others it's just a habit they fall in love all the time
    there's always a chance, but if you really love her, maybe you'll let her be, let her go, let her be happy (if she is with her current love life) the girl's not a possession (i might be being too insensitive to your feelings over here but my intention was not to hurt your feelings)
    "or am I being desperate. I'm so confused :/" after my above crazy rant, maybe you have found the answer to this one

    ***disclaimer***(the answerer is not exactly in his right mind so BEWARE!!!)

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  • You shouldn't have even told her you love her in the first place. She is TAKEN which means lay off. Move on. You do not have a chance with her.

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  • ^ my phone won't let me write the "he'll" word too .. I don't know why

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  • And taking the chance of getting the he'll beat out of you

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  • Give up and move on. Your only hurting yourself. And by chasing a taken women you making yourself look a bit creepy

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