Leaving would probably be best. If he's a good friend then he can still be a good friend after the divorce. If you're worried about the kids there are ways they can have a fulfilling relationship with the both of you even after separating and they'd be happier if you both are happier. If you want to you could stay married for convenience. Marriage is really more of just a contract dealing with property, finance, and custody. If you want you could talk to him about how you're feeling and maybe come up with a "see other people" agreement. If you both are okay with an open relationship and communicate with each other honestly and openly then you could probably reap the benefits of single life while still enjoying the benefits of marriage.
To Stay Or To Go.... Husband Cheated 2 years ago
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Leaving would probably be best. If he's a good friend then he can still be a good friend after the divorce. If you're worried about the kids there are ways they can have a fulfilling relationship with the both of you even after separating and they'd be happier if you both are happier. If you want to you could stay married for convenience. Marriage is really more of just a contract dealing with property, finance, and custody. If you want you could talk to him about how you're feeling and maybe come up with a "see other people" agreement. If you both are okay with an open relationship and communicate with each other honestly and openly then you could probably reap the benefits of single life while still enjoying the benefits of marriage.