To really not care much for relationships.

I get bored easily and grow tired. So I have to move on to something else. I get irratated when people stand in the way of me moving on. They're more than welcome to come along as long as something new comes out of their mouth.

Been this way forever. Needless to say girlfriends don't really stick around. But then again I don't either. Maybe I demand too much. What do you think???

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  • Me_1226

    I'm exactly the same way. Got divorced 5 years ago and since then have being single the last three. Met a great guy about 7 months ago; but as always, I got discourage and by default bored.

    As long as we are honest and open with that other person, I don't see harm or abnormality in our behavior. At least in my case, I'm always up front when it comes to such. Some guys have left before I keep on moving and others have stuck around at their own risk.

    Maybe we haven't found the "right one" yet. In my case it will be the "right one, second time around". Probably when we think we have, we will be the ones being left behind...who knows.

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  • Ratso

    I get bored in relationships alot
    I no ur pain
    But its normal

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  • uncreative89

    im the same way. i would like to get married some day though so i can make my wife take care of all my bills and stuff of that nature because i would just end up driving myself into serious debt problems

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  • xoSushi

    I think you may have a case of depression. Maybe go seek a doctor.

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  • Ninjagirl

    I'm sorry, but you sound a bit arrogant to me. Before expecting your girl friends to be witty at every second of the day, are you that way yourself? It's unrealistic to expect that others are interesting//funny/new / different every day when you yourself I'm sure are not that way either.
    When you know someone for a time, the newness fades away, but if you get bored that quickly and easily by each new woman you date something tells me you are avoiding getting close/intimate with that person... it has nothing to do with the women becoming boring,, but with you being scared of developing a close, more intimate relationship. Maybe you are not doing a good job at asking questions and working to get to know the women you date. Every person can be interesting, if you take the time to ask/explore what makes them tick, and ask about their past... do you expect the women you date to entertain you at every moment? this is not realistic. You might be getting the thrill of moving to new woman after new woman, but eventually, don't you want something more? Don't you want a lloving relationship knowing that your sig other will be there for you, when you need them. If you don't establish a close relationship, then you won't let anyone close enough to truly love you

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  • hotchickie81

    I used to be like that. The relationship would start out great, all in love and such, and then I would grow bored. But I think it was because I hadn't met the right guy yet. I later met my future hubby, and we're now married and still in love :) I hope this one lasts forever!!

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  • Maybe you are bit boring & tiresome, not that respectful & fail to connect with other people & cultivate relationships, and move on as a way of dealing with it, but for some strange reason, the pattern repeats itself? What do you think? Nothing you've said suggests you have high standards. Or any.

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    • That is that you demand much or anything...

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  • Jen118584

    Hopefully your problem is that you haven't met the right girl. In my opinion, a lifetime full of meaningless relationships would be very unfulfilling after a while. But hey, if you're young, have fun I guess. Don't go into every relationship thinking that it won't last. Keep an open mind and maybe one day you'll stumble upon something good.

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