A really good way to meet people and become involved with your community is to volunteer at a homeless or animal shelter or the zoo. Volunteering would help immensely with your shyness and get you out of the house and helping others.
Alternately, join a sailing club, biking club, a kite flying club; anything that interests you and meet like minded people that way.
Going out to clubs and getting drunk is probably going to be rewarded with an unexpected little package of joy, any one of several STD's, but no lasting friendships.
At 21 it's pretty silly to think you'll be alone for the next 70 years. You hardly have any idea of who you really are yet, so if you want a friend or two, find something that interests you and go where others who have a similar interest hang out.
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A really good way to meet people and become involved with your community is to volunteer at a homeless or animal shelter or the zoo. Volunteering would help immensely with your shyness and get you out of the house and helping others.
Alternately, join a sailing club, biking club, a kite flying club; anything that interests you and meet like minded people that way.
Going out to clubs and getting drunk is probably going to be rewarded with an unexpected little package of joy, any one of several STD's, but no lasting friendships.
At 21 it's pretty silly to think you'll be alone for the next 70 years. You hardly have any idea of who you really are yet, so if you want a friend or two, find something that interests you and go where others who have a similar interest hang out.