To not want to move out but is forced to because of arguments

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I'm 19 years old turning 20. I love my family to death and would do anything for them. However, they always complaine about me comming home late and smoking. But I smoke because it makes me feel normal and I tend not to think about stuff. I was thinking of moving put beacuse I can't take the arguments anymore. Please I need help what should I do?

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago | pl

    Time to move on, if you do not like their rules, then it is past time to be on your own and live by your rules and mistakes.

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  • Short&2thepoint
    12 years ago | pl

    Definetly, if you love them to death then visit them more than most people, but don't use it as an excuse for not wanting to live your own life, get your own place and do whatever the hell you want.

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  • tennisplayer
    12 years ago | pl

    Ya it's time to move out. u now need ur own space

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    12 years ago | pl

    I think I'm in love with dappled.

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  • ThatUglyDoll
    10 years ago | pl

    I was already moved out at 16.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    Move out. I got all kinds of grief just for the way I lived my life. I know they cared about me and wanted me to be some paradigm of virtue but I only made the same mistakes they did (and which they were probably also shouted at for). It's the circle of life. Move out, meet someone, have kids, wait 18 years, and then shout at them too for the same things you yourself did as if you didn't ever do anything wrong. Bah!

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago | pl

    ^ totally agree.

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