I can relate to you. I have always been a "loner," I am happiest and most productive when I have substantial amounts of time to myself. I am in a great loving committed relationship but I know that if the ship were to sink, I'd be fine. That's not to say I'd be over him instantly, or feel nothing. I'd need time and there would be tears but I'd be fine. I wouldn't feel the need to jump back into a relationship, I wouldn't call or text him, it'd be over and I'd manage just fine. I suppose it comes from bad experiences in the past that have made me stronger and more confident in my own abilities and my mental control, my understanding of my emotions and life experiences, it's a strength, not a weakness. Understanding that you are the closest thing to forever that you'll ever have, It's not cold or wrong like others are saying. It means that you are strong, that's all.
To love but able to walk away easily
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I can relate to you. I have always been a "loner," I am happiest and most productive when I have substantial amounts of time to myself. I am in a great loving committed relationship but I know that if the ship were to sink, I'd be fine. That's not to say I'd be over him instantly, or feel nothing. I'd need time and there would be tears but I'd be fine. I wouldn't feel the need to jump back into a relationship, I wouldn't call or text him, it'd be over and I'd manage just fine. I suppose it comes from bad experiences in the past that have made me stronger and more confident in my own abilities and my mental control, my understanding of my emotions and life experiences, it's a strength, not a weakness. Understanding that you are the closest thing to forever that you'll ever have, It's not cold or wrong like others are saying. It means that you are strong, that's all.