If this is the only relationship you've had that makes you feel this way, then perhaps you do not truly love him. If it's been this way with all your relationships, then that is just the way you are.
I didn't get the sense you live together, do you?
There are no set rules for relationships; each must fit both party's needs. Would it be a problem for him if you had more time alone? I've known a lot of couples who spend a good portion of the year apart (mostly because his work takes him away for 3 or 4 months at a time), but very much enjoy the time they do have together. A lot of military couples live this way, too.
We already spend half our time apart because of his work. We do live together. Living apart would be my ideal but I have no money & can't work for various reasons!
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If this is the only relationship you've had that makes you feel this way, then perhaps you do not truly love him. If it's been this way with all your relationships, then that is just the way you are.
I didn't get the sense you live together, do you?
There are no set rules for relationships; each must fit both party's needs. Would it be a problem for him if you had more time alone? I've known a lot of couples who spend a good portion of the year apart (mostly because his work takes him away for 3 or 4 months at a time), but very much enjoy the time they do have together. A lot of military couples live this way, too.
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We already spend half our time apart because of his work. We do live together. Living apart would be my ideal but I have no money & can't work for various reasons!