I function like this: If I know that a relationship is doomed due to the other persons lack of putting enough effort in it, I can walk away. About a year ago I broke up with my ex that I had been with for 4,5 years because he didn't show improvements at all and refused to put effort in our relationship. Yet it was NOT easy and I felt horrible for some days once it was done but since I knew that it was the right decision it worked. This said, I think that you don't love the person that you are with because walking away is the easy part. It's what comes after that makes you wish to return until you have gotten rid of those feelings. Maybe you should break up with him if you don't feel that committed to him? It seems unfair to occupy his time if the feelings are not mutual.
Yeah. I have only had three boyfriends. My first that lasted for two months or so before I broke it off ( It was kinda the whole "Omg he'd interested! Maybe I am too" sorta thing. I was too immature to know. Then I had a rough year of dating before the overweight guy. After him I had my true slutmonths before I met my current one.
To love but able to walk away easily
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I function like this: If I know that a relationship is doomed due to the other persons lack of putting enough effort in it, I can walk away. About a year ago I broke up with my ex that I had been with for 4,5 years because he didn't show improvements at all and refused to put effort in our relationship. Yet it was NOT easy and I felt horrible for some days once it was done but since I knew that it was the right decision it worked. This said, I think that you don't love the person that you are with because walking away is the easy part. It's what comes after that makes you wish to return until you have gotten rid of those feelings. Maybe you should break up with him if you don't feel that committed to him? It seems unfair to occupy his time if the feelings are not mutual.
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Are you talking about the overweight guy again?
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Yeah. I have only had three boyfriends. My first that lasted for two months or so before I broke it off ( It was kinda the whole "Omg he'd interested! Maybe I am too" sorta thing. I was too immature to know. Then I had a rough year of dating before the overweight guy. After him I had my true slutmonths before I met my current one.
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It is still the morning here and I got wood.
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Morning for me too! Since I recently woke up!
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Isn't it around 3 pm there as of now?
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Yeees xD 16.30 now. I fell asleep around 8 am. Roleplayed for six hours and then I watched some serie xD