Someone said that fwb dont turn into meaningful relationships, from expericence thats not true. Me and my boyfriend starte out as fwb and weve been dating for two years now and plan to get married. The thing is, it worked out that way for us because deep down both of us were looking for a relationship so having sex was just our way to bond more. I have a feeling that some of those girls want a relationship too because to be honest no girl would initiate somethin like that unless she was interested in you. You on the other hand dont sound like youre looking for a relationship, and therein lies the problem. You might be thinking its all for fun and a good time, but in the end youre just going to end up hurting these girls when they realize you cant give them ehat they need. On top of that you would just look like a selfish prick, especially if you had something going with all 3 girls at once. Imagine they all liked you and then found out about each other. They could completely shame you (even make something up bevause girls are vindictive like that) and make you look like a jackass and then since karma is a bitch, what if you found a girl you actually cared about but she wasnt interested in you because she heard of your womanizing ways? Youre treading dangerous waters here. My advice is either to find new friends or to make it clear to your friends that youre not interested in that. If you make up some bs answer about how you dont want to hurt them etc, they will keep puhing because theyre going to think theres still a chance youll change your mind. And by the way, theres nothing more sexy and desirable that something you know you cant have.
To have sex or to not?
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Someone said that fwb dont turn into meaningful relationships, from expericence thats not true. Me and my boyfriend starte out as fwb and weve been dating for two years now and plan to get married. The thing is, it worked out that way for us because deep down both of us were looking for a relationship so having sex was just our way to bond more. I have a feeling that some of those girls want a relationship too because to be honest no girl would initiate somethin like that unless she was interested in you. You on the other hand dont sound like youre looking for a relationship, and therein lies the problem. You might be thinking its all for fun and a good time, but in the end youre just going to end up hurting these girls when they realize you cant give them ehat they need. On top of that you would just look like a selfish prick, especially if you had something going with all 3 girls at once. Imagine they all liked you and then found out about each other. They could completely shame you (even make something up bevause girls are vindictive like that) and make you look like a jackass and then since karma is a bitch, what if you found a girl you actually cared about but she wasnt interested in you because she heard of your womanizing ways? Youre treading dangerous waters here. My advice is either to find new friends or to make it clear to your friends that youre not interested in that. If you make up some bs answer about how you dont want to hurt them etc, they will keep puhing because theyre going to think theres still a chance youll change your mind. And by the way, theres nothing more sexy and desirable that something you know you cant have.
Best of luck to you...!