That's really tough, it's like you're between four walls and simply can't escape, but this is my suggestion from everything I understand about your situation: you want to live a normal life and marry your fiance, but the stress of the whole thing is weighing you down constantly, so I know that what I'm going to say isn't a perfect solution, but it might make things better: marry your fiance, adopt your niece (at least temporarily) and move out. That way at least you'll have what could be considered a normal life, a family, and more freedom. You're taking care of your part of the job while managing to make it more tolerable. About your dad, I really think that he is the one taking it better out of all of you, so I wouldn't think about being constantly around him. Keeping contact might be enough, but you can always visit regularly. Maybe seeing you happier will make him happy too. Good luck!
To feel this trapped in life
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That's really tough, it's like you're between four walls and simply can't escape, but this is my suggestion from everything I understand about your situation: you want to live a normal life and marry your fiance, but the stress of the whole thing is weighing you down constantly, so I know that what I'm going to say isn't a perfect solution, but it might make things better: marry your fiance, adopt your niece (at least temporarily) and move out. That way at least you'll have what could be considered a normal life, a family, and more freedom. You're taking care of your part of the job while managing to make it more tolerable. About your dad, I really think that he is the one taking it better out of all of you, so I wouldn't think about being constantly around him. Keeping contact might be enough, but you can always visit regularly. Maybe seeing you happier will make him happy too. Good luck!