To be a bit disappointed

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So I got a FWB, I've gotten him to try new stuff since I met him. He told me before me he's only done missionary. Hard to believe but okay. It's almost my birthday and I'm not sure if I should bring up oral again.

He said he did it to me once. Which is a lie. I love oral. I would remember. Then hes said hes not super into it. It's been litarly YEARS since I've had any and i want to again. Idk what to do. I dont just wanna hook up with some rando.

Bring it up or try to see if my other guy friend/ex can hang out?

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  • Ellenna
    4 years ago

    If he says he gave you oral and you say he didn't, maybe you're talking about different things? Because of course you'd remember!

    IF he's a FWB then presumably it's not an exclusive relationship, so what's stopping you from getting your needs met elsewhere? I suggest you bring it up again and tell him you're considering getting oral sex elsewhere and check out his response.

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  • dernier
    4 years ago

    Sounds like you've already brought it up and gotten your answer: he's got into it. That sort of thing usually doesn't change, man or woman. If you really want oral, you'll probably need to look elsewhere.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    If he's not super in to it then I'd be willing to wager it's moreso that he's just not experienced in doing it and doesn't want to embarrass himself by fucking it up.

    Bring it up that you love it in a subtle but obvious way to show you clearly want oral. If I'm right and he just doesn't have faith in his ability to perform oral then maybe meet him half way and pretend you're not good at it either (if you haven't done it already) and be pretty bad at it so that he doesn't feel like he has something major to prove in comparison.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    4 years ago

    when yall are sitting watching tv or doing whatever grab his hand and put it on ur crotch ontop of your jeans. Then just start the usual program like kissing and rub his dick in his jeans or something. Then go from there.

    Btw make sure your clean because that is a nightmare when a girls puss smells like rotting flesh and shes soooo into oral 🤮

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    • bigbudchonga
      4 years ago

      Idk why you're getting downvoted for this, dude. You're right, I love giving oral, but it's fucking disgusting when it smells like rotten tuna.

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
        4 years ago

        I had a girl one time tell me she was really into it and she actually had just gotten out of the shower. We had sex and immediately I could tell something was wrong. The whole room smelt like a dead body. Then she starts saying go down on me. I said no I dont do that (even tho beforehand i told her i did 🤣). Idk what she had going on. Either an infection or an STD. Idk, but that shit was disgusting.

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        • bigbudchonga
          4 years ago

          Grrrrrrrriiimmm

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  • bigbudchonga
    4 years ago

    Tell him against how much you want it. Then if he says no just start going elsewhere.

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