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I am a straight male and I am considering wearing girls bikini bottoms to the beach/pool. I was just wondering what others thought about it. If you leave a comment expanding on your vote, please let me know what choice you selected.
I just want people to know that I'm straight so they don't ask "Are you gay?" I feel that some people have this backwards idea that just because a guy might want to wear girls clothing, he's automatically gay or automatically seeking a way to "acceptably" sleep with a guy. I'm not.
A couple guys did this at my high school on opposite day (we had the option to dress as the opposite gender. It was an end of the year thing). It was normal, straight, popular guys who did this. I'm not saying you won't get some weird looks, but be confident and people will get used to it.
I identify as a non op / non HRT MtF transgender. So, by all accounts I look 100% male But I dress feminine outside of work. I have a membership to 24 hour fitness, I primarily use the pool. I wear women's swim suits. There is a big natural outdoor spring fed pool where I live. there are hundreds of people there on any given weekend. I will usually wear a bikini so I can lay out and tan. I have been out there many times and nobody has ever said ANYTHING to me about it being gross, disgusting, inappropriate or anything else. I was questioned once in the ladies locker room at the gym. But that was it. In the gym I have had plenty of women come up to me and compliment me and say they support me 100% and that if I have any problems they will have my back. The group of people I associate with in the gym have all supported me as well and happily welcomed me into the group. I say just be you and you will achieve your happiness. Don't let others take away your sunshine! As far as hiding the beans and franks......I would say learn how to tuck. It only takes a little practice and a little getting used to. I would also say either shave or wax, the "bikini" area, ESPECIALLY if you are going to wear a bikini. Tucking is not really mandatory unless you are self conscious about it. I tuck because I like the smoother appearance in the front.
I've always envied girls their ability to wear and display pretty underwear. Before I got married, my wife to be said that she did not like being bought underwear, and she has never gone for sexy panties. I have started wearing male g strings and indeed frillies, which these days seem less gross and more available online.
They make me feel much more light hearted.
I love wearing my bikini bottoms to the water park, beach or pool. Ive been wearing bikini bottoms for years. A gf at the time got me started wearing them. I like the Jelly brand best, since they look like a guys speedo. Even though Im above average, they fit great. The thinner material stretches more. I get guy colors and no one knows the difference. I love the compliments from the girls and ladies.