Thought of a hot woman hating me gets me aroused
Maybe it's all those James Bond movies I watched with the seductive femme fatales, maybe it's because I want her so bad to like me I'd do anything even though it's impossible (want what you can't have), but I've realized how sexy it is.
I think this Curb Your Enthusiasm clip helps summarize it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Co_BhTxgWys&t=15s