This person keeps asking me out even after i rejected them. iin?

She keeps insisting that I'll love her if I date her and won't leave me alone despite the fact that she knows I have someone. I'm not attracted to her at all. Is this normal?

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18% Normal
Based on 39 votes (7 yes)
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  • S12207

    It's not normal they won't leave you alone, however, I have been in the same position and I ended up needing to completely distance myself from my friend who wouldn't let up. I have made it abundantly clear that I love my bf and it will never happen, but it won't stop. Unfortunately just dropping a quick text to say hello and see how they are translates in their brain that you want them. This is the first and only time someone would not listen to my words of no to the point of obsession and I strongly feel they just need serious help inside. I think you should distance yourself and allow them to find their happiness because it's obviously not you and someone's happiness should never be reliant on another person. Just be nice, tell them how it is, and hit block.

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  • RoseIsabella

    She sounds scary!

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    • The_Loitering_Creep

      She's a stalker. Factoid: there are the same number of female stalkers as male stalkers.

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  • Piguy97

    Don't tale the bait.

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  • MR.mr

    Have outright rejected her?
    Like directly stated I am not interested in having anykind of relationship with you.

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    • BigScaryRooster

      Multiple times. I even told her to fuck off when I was angry. She still won't get it.

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      • MR.mr

        restaining order

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        • RoseIsabella

          I couldn't agree more!

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          • The_Loitering_Creep

            Meh. Wearing a gorilla mask might work better.

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            • RoseIsabella

              No, I doubt that will work. He needs to take out a restraining order on her and block her number on his phone as well as on all social media. If she shows up at his residence or place of work he needs to call the cops.

              You know what might do her a world of good would be some quality time in a psychiatric ward.

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