This one's for the men. does thought matter more than the actual gift?

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I've always been insecure about gift giving, usually because I dont know what to get. What can you get a guy that you just can't go wrong with?

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  • megadriver
    4 years ago | pl

    Get something he likes. If he likes to read, buy him a book. If he plays games, buy him a game, etc... Or go down the emotion path and buy him something that connects the two of you in some way... That's what my girlfriend does anyway.

    My girlfriend is a typical girly girl and usually buys me stuff I have no use for. Like a small statue of two dolphins doing a pirouette thing for Valentines day. Or a semi-sparkly heart shaped frame with pictures of us together for my birthday.

    And I think it's sweet. I don't like such gifts, but I appreciate the thought behind them. Cause they are gifts from the heart. Lovingly chosen by my girlfriend and they have a special meaning to her.
    If she's happy, I'm happy.

    The only practical thing she's gotten me is a watch for Christmas.
    Even tho I very rarely wear a watch, it's a nice thing to own.

    Besides I can't really tell my girlfriend I want a lowering kit for a 1984 E24 BMW as a present now can I? XD

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    • Nigget
      4 years ago | pl

      Hahaha I like this. But what do you get a guy who likes to go out a lot. And drink. You know what I should just buy him beer but I want something long lasting, not something you'll pee out later.

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      • megadriver
        4 years ago | pl

        Nothing wrong with getting someone a good whiskey, or something... If your buddy likes a good drink, he'll appreciate the gift.
        One of my best friends (also ex), also an experienced drinker like me got me a limited edition Chivas Regal. I invited her over and we drank the thing together. Girlfriend isn't a big whiskey fan, so I made her some bloody maries. I appreciate a good drink, so a quality drink as a present is welcomed.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    4 years ago | pl

    Kinky sex is the best gift. Surprise him with something sexy

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    • Nigget
      4 years ago | pl

      Wehhhhh we aren't together plus he lives far away. I wanted it as like.. if he ever comes to see me then it's something he can keep. (Ik someone here is gonna be like "your virginity") lol smartasses

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  • SKDM007
    4 years ago | pl

    its the ACT that counts, so not really the thought OR the gift but the fact that you went out of your way to actually get something shows a lot

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  • Ummitsstillme
    4 years ago | pl

    A blowjob

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago | pl

    Not unlike women, men are not all the same. It's important to know a person's tastes, and personality in order to buy a good gift.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago | pl

    No chicks want shit, expensive shit. They can't help it. Its locked in there dna

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    • [Old Memory]
      4 years ago | pl

      Aaanndd, here I am- the "not-every-er", here to remind you that "not every".

      I don't really like expensive presents, they make me feel guilty and uncomfortable, and my tastes aren't very expensive to begin with. Getting good stuff for cheap is part of the enjoyment.

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    • Nigget
      4 years ago | pl

      Ik I'm supposed to react to this but you have a negative one like and im dying

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      • [Old Memory]
        4 years ago | pl

        What up nig? Yea I can not please everyone. I am bound to get a thumbs down here and there. Its life bud.

        But I do aim to please. Don't die, we don't want the smell.

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        • Nigget
          4 years ago | pl

          Lol I may leave a temporary smell but you'll leave a stain. I'm assuming that's why you chose that name? You on your period bro? Ik its life lol, I didnt mean it in a rude way but if you wanna go lmao lets

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          • [Old Memory]
            4 years ago | pl

            Why do I have to be on my period? Maybe I have blood sugar problem and cut myself shaving.

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            • Nigget
              4 years ago | pl

              Do you? Cause I'm anaemic lmao so I have a blood problem too

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    • TheBlindInquisitor
      4 years ago | pl

      I'm a dude and I want shit, expensive shit not sure about the DNA part.

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      • [Old Memory]
        4 years ago | pl

        Yea but do you want to suck dick for it, or do you want to get it yourself?

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