This is really stressing me out, but is it common among other males?

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I have been sexually active since i was 15 / 16 without any issues, if anything i was a real a**hole in the way i used to treat woman, just one night stands all the time.
i finally settled down when i was like 19, n got into a pretty serious relationship with a lovely girl who was like 8 years older than me.
she had a miscarriage at like 6/7 months, and we ended up splittin up and she went on a mad one with drugs.
that was a year ago, she sorted herself out and we still close firends. im now 22 and after she lost me kid it messed me up bad, since i aint been able to have sex with girls, i get uncomfortable and stressed everytime i go to bed with anyone. and have messed it up with about 5 different girls, each time thinking it will be ok. im think its psychosamatic, but how can i sort things out?

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  • chubby_bunny
    12 years ago | pl

    Ignore the first comment. It was cruel.

    You should seek a counselor or therapist. You are definitely still mourning a loss and it continues to effect you.

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago | pl

    Oddness should change his name to fuckedness!

    The only way to get past this is to have sex with a girl. Whatever you are afraid will happen will most likely not happen. It is anxiety and is most likely related to pregnancy and the fact that your gf freaked out , at a guess. remember everyone is responsible for their own behaviour and reactions. Go to your gp if it doesn't get better.

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  • oddness
    13 years ago | pl

    Suicide is a good option for you.

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