TL;DR - Confess without expecting her to say yes, and stay calm when she says no.
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Here are some things not to do:
1. For goodness sake, do not ask a girl out on her birthday, your birthday, Christmas, Valentine's Day, or any holiday, because it's stupid and annoying. Holidays will not make a girl say yes, but make us feel weird, awkward, and pressured if we don't feel the same way. Just keep it simple, private, and on a day that means nothing.
2. Don't buy her gifts, then expect her to say yes to your confession because you voluntarily bought her a few things.
3. Just because you look nice, have a great body, make a lot of money, or popular, does not mean you're entitled to anyone.
4. No grandstanding, please. It's fun when boyfriends/husbands do it, because the relationship is already established. However, don't do this for a confession, because it's embarrassing and even more so when we say no.
5. No guilt-tripping, or hostility. Do not start bawling to make her change her mind. Do not say shit like, "I guess I'll die alone...," to make her feel bad for saying no. Do not get angry. Do not interrogate her, as in, "What's wrong with me?!" or "What kind of guy do you like?!"
6. More importantly, don't expect a woman to say yes to your confession just because she's your friend.
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(This list also applies to women who are confessing too)
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TL;DR - Confess without expecting her to say yes, and stay calm when she says no.
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Here are some things not to do:
1. For goodness sake, do not ask a girl out on her birthday, your birthday, Christmas, Valentine's Day, or any holiday, because it's stupid and annoying. Holidays will not make a girl say yes, but make us feel weird, awkward, and pressured if we don't feel the same way. Just keep it simple, private, and on a day that means nothing.
2. Don't buy her gifts, then expect her to say yes to your confession because you voluntarily bought her a few things.
3. Just because you look nice, have a great body, make a lot of money, or popular, does not mean you're entitled to anyone.
4. No grandstanding, please. It's fun when boyfriends/husbands do it, because the relationship is already established. However, don't do this for a confession, because it's embarrassing and even more so when we say no.
5. No guilt-tripping, or hostility. Do not start bawling to make her change her mind. Do not say shit like, "I guess I'll die alone...," to make her feel bad for saying no. Do not get angry. Do not interrogate her, as in, "What's wrong with me?!" or "What kind of guy do you like?!"
6. More importantly, don't expect a woman to say yes to your confession just because she's your friend.
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(This list also applies to women who are confessing too)
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Amen to that!