This is for girls only, i want your opinion

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  • This is what I want all the guys I meet who are interested in me to know:

    Ask me out in a straight up way that is not pushy or cocky. Respect me and my feelings enough that you don't ask me out in front of other people, because that can, and probably will be embarrassing for both of us; don't pressure, harass or try to entrap me. Please understand that as much as you might want me to say yes to your invitation it is also my right to say no should I feel so inclined. Please don't bitter or hateful if can't return your affections for whatever reason. If you can't truly handle rejection then it just tells me I made the right choice in saying no, because you probably never really liked or respected me as a person. Just because you find me physically attractive doesn't mean you need to ask me out or that I need to say yes. I'm looking for males who share common interests, morals, values, religious affiliation; I need real emotional, physical and spiritual compatibility. You're physical attraction to me is not enough reason to say yes, I don't owe you anything for that. Don't take it personal.

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    • Well said, I really enjoyed reading the way you worded your reply. That should be a required read for males age 15 and up with a refresher/reminder read every 12-18 months. ::Standing to applaud you::

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    • I wish the guys and gals on OKCupid could read some of what you wrote. That place is filled with hateful, entitled psychos.

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      • I bet a lot of emails are sex addicts and let us not forget the Nigerian scam artists who pose as lonely hearts.

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        • Yep and also drug addicts, people who hide that they have kids, homophobes, and people who don't read dating profiles. So, just basically addicts, liars, and people that get angry at the word no. I'm so glad I'm gone from there.
          :)

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    • Thanks for the feedback ;)

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