This girl i met online

So there is this girl I got attached to that I met online,she has been chatting with me for half a year to a year. We both are similar in a lot of ways. We have talked on video chat,talked to her on the phone and met her in person. I know she is real,the thing is she told me devastating news in the middle of the night,that she has mouth sores from a drink or bong she smoked. I missed the signals since she refused to kiss me. She declined kissing me,did not know why. But now she told she has mouth sores,saying she is wasting my time and my emotions blaming herself. Is this a relationship worth pursuing. She said she is hurt because of her condition and is pushing everyone away. Let me know if there are huge red flags here.

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  • Mouth sores? As in canker sores? 9r as in herpes cause there's huge difference

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  • Give her the benefit of the doubt man!

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    • When it comes to STDs, there is NO room for "benefit of the doubt". Not getting a kiss won't kill you. Find someone else.

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  • Well she could be legit embarassed about the sores and sores around/inside the mouth can be painful too. I know that if I was just using an excuse not to see someone anymore i'd use something more common/less weird.

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  • Until you see the sores for yourself you won't know if she's telling you the truth or using it as an excuse to push you away. That said, there are many other excuses that're far more common. I'd say give her the benefit of the doubt and continue to try making things work. You never know unless you try right?

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    • This is true. Did not think of that.

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