This girl i met online

So there is this girl I got attached to that I met online,she has been chatting with me for half a year to a year. We both are similar in a lot of ways. We have talked on video chat,talked to her on the phone and met her in person. I know she is real,the thing is she told me devastating news in the middle of the night,that she has mouth sores from a drink or bong she smoked. I missed the signals since she refused to kiss me. She declined kissing me,did not know why. But now she told she has mouth sores,saying she is wasting my time and my emotions blaming herself. Is this a relationship worth pursuing. She said she is hurt because of her condition and is pushing everyone away. Let me know if there are huge red flags here.

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  • Mammal-lover

    Mouth sores? As in canker sores? 9r as in herpes cause there's huge difference

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    • No,cold sores.

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      Haha yes devil in the details. I suspect it was something bad or else she wouldn't feel so insecure about it.

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      • You are right. Thanks for the input.

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        • d0esnormalmatter

          You found out?

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          • She has cold sores.

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          • She sent me a picture of it,yes.

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      • Mammal-lover

        Very true. Devil is in the details

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    • Cold sores actualy.

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    Give her the benefit of the doubt man!

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    • farkelu

      When it comes to STDs, there is NO room for "benefit of the doubt". Not getting a kiss won't kill you. Find someone else.

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      • d0esnormalmatter

        Haha so don't date her cause you might get an STD. Roger that excuse-making virgin!

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  • ellnell

    Well she could be legit embarassed about the sores and sores around/inside the mouth can be painful too. I know that if I was just using an excuse not to see someone anymore i'd use something more common/less weird.

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  • MrToxic

    Until you see the sores for yourself you won't know if she's telling you the truth or using it as an excuse to push you away. That said, there are many other excuses that're far more common. I'd say give her the benefit of the doubt and continue to try making things work. You never know unless you try right?

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    • This is true. Did not think of that.

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