Thinks my boyfriend is addicted to phone sex

Why don't you try phone sex with him? Least then it won't be so much as cheating

sex in all its forms can be addictive. Short cuts like porn movies and phone sex, allow the consumer to by pass all those intricate elements that come with a relationship (discussion, communication, compromising etc) and go straight to the sexually gratifying parts. It is fine and possibly healthy to participate in these activities to a point. That point is where they being to interfere with the ability of the individual to carry on a relationship with his/her mate. If your boyfriend is unable to go with viewing these videos and talking with the sex workers knowing how much distress it causes you, then it might be time to seek professional help for him as he may be dealing with a sex addiction. If your sex life has changed and this change can be directly or indirectly connected to his use of these sexual outlets, this might also be indicative of a sex addiction. Either way, you and him need to have a serious talk about the phone sex and how you feel about it. Only then can you decide the best way to move forward together or to go your separate ways.

best of luck!

just tell the guy to eff off, cuz watchin porn while your in a relationship means hes not physically attracted to you, and the phone sex is cheating, there is no close to it, it is in fact cheating

that's weird. why isn't he addicted to real sex?

I don't like my Fiancée/boyfriend watching porn and he respects that. Instead of him watching porn I make videos of me playing with myself and send it to him. As for phone sex, he& I have phone sex together. You should try these things if yu don't like it. It's better than him hurting yu right? Just have ps with him and enjoy it. You'll get used to it. Make him want you, not them. Don't get your hopes down. Be sexy and spontaneous. Try new things in bed with him.

porn it's fine for all guys, but phone sex?

I think that his penis actually fits in the phone holes rather than yours..

oh god sorry, i always do that to retarded couples.

Ok, this actually is quite stupid, obviously it isn't normal.

I don't think you have the same values and you need to think hard about how far this relationship can possibly go. It's kind of stunned he would just expect you to accept it, especially the phone sex. Somehow I do not think the bar is going to get higher in this relationship (the opposite is more likely).

Yeahhhhh, porn is fine with me but phone sex would be really not at all okay with me. Confront him if you haven't, and if you have and nothing has changed, find a new boyfriend because that's disrespectful, in my opinion.

I think you are over reacting. I wouldnt mind at all if my partner was having phone sex or even cyber sex on cam. As long as its just sex and not an emotional involvement. And as long as it isnt effecting your sex life in a negative way.
You need to understand that mens sexuality is different to womens. Perhaps your sex drives are mismatched. Therefore if he needs more than you are willing to give then he needs an outlet for it or he will be miserable to live with. As long as he isnt actually having real sex then what is the problem? There is no risk of disease. Get over your childish jealousy.