Yeah but when I actually consider leaving because of this issue, I actually feel more hopeful and positive about finding a new place to work. That’s a green flag and I feel more like myself, like the person I want to be. So that tells me I might be dealing with something in general and specifically the gaslighting that are sucking the life out of me….
I know what you’re saying though, except for me, personally, the second I realize a situation is having a real detrimental affect on my physical or mental/spiritual health, I’m out.
This is true. I literally keep feeling it out on a daily basis. But I don’t think it’s as bad as it is. Part of my issue is I have long standing trust issues (perhaps I was gaslit in the past) so when someone tells me something that doesn’t match my reality or view on things, I tend to assume My POV is right and valid and I question theirs
Think I’m being gaslit by my boss
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Yeah but when I actually consider leaving because of this issue, I actually feel more hopeful and positive about finding a new place to work. That’s a green flag and I feel more like myself, like the person I want to be. So that tells me I might be dealing with something in general and specifically the gaslighting that are sucking the life out of me….
I know what you’re saying though, except for me, personally, the second I realize a situation is having a real detrimental affect on my physical or mental/spiritual health, I’m out.
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Your new job could be worse. Idk how much he's gas lighting you but often times bosses or coworkers are even worse than that.
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This is true. I literally keep feeling it out on a daily basis. But I don’t think it’s as bad as it is. Part of my issue is I have long standing trust issues (perhaps I was gaslit in the past) so when someone tells me something that doesn’t match my reality or view on things, I tend to assume My POV is right and valid and I question theirs