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To anyone who is bi sexual or lesbian, is the term "Good guys come last" similar when it comes to girls?
For example I'm a nice girl, I am polite, honest and down to earth. Sure I have a Tom boy side where I like motorbikes and such but would a lesbian or bi sexual girl find that attractive? DO majority of girls like bad girls or does this rule only apply to heterosexuals
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According to your logic, since "most men are assholes" hetero women don't really have a choice bit to date assholes.
Of course, this is ludicrous on it's surface. The overwhelming majority of men are nice it's just that the data is skewed becaused asshole men tend to fuck and fuck over a lot of women, while nice guys tend to stick to one or two women in their lifetime.
How about if I said to you the majority of lesbians are man hating dykes!
It's not ludicrous.
It's just majority are assholes in today's generation. It is what I have experienced but not only that, have seen many stories on groups I'm in.
Well Idk maybe majority are! Wouldn't be surprised tbh with the way men are treating women these days, no wonder more women are going gay
I like girls. Period.
But, yeah, bad girls are appealing to most lesbians. It's their attitude and wildness...
I am into weird and shy women, not much badass chicks.
hmm okay so there's bad ass chick's then wanna be bad ass chick's right ? Like I feel if I were to try to be one, it just wouldn't work..
I feel like I could get a tattoo, a motorbike and even change my hair style but still not have the cool swag demeanor to go with it..
It doesn't apply for women usually. Everybody has their own preference of course but it's usually just that way for men because it shows more masculinity, a reason why many lesbians are lesbians is because they want the opposite.
oh okay but what about butch women? Why do they try and dress and look like guys, when being a lesbian is about liking another female? Is it true that most feminine lesbians would be drawn to them more because of how masculine butch women are?
Also, I'm not a bad ass chick, tho I wish I was.
It's not like I have loads piercings and tattoos but I'm Tom boy like I said but a good girl..
I don't know what lesbians or bi girls are drawn to most.
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I like nice girls who like motorbikes and stuff! (heterosexual male and fully ocean-going nice guy)
This rule doesnt apply to heteros
Nice girls like nice guys
Bitches like assholes
Simple .
Definitely not, my mum and many of my close friends have been fucked over by dick head cheating, lying men.
And they're not bitches but kind people.
There are bitches out there but most men are assholes
That proves my point
Its just that they didnt know they are assholes early enough
Im a guy and none of my friends or me have ever cheated on their partners , not most men are assholes just in america ;)
Proves what point?
How does that prove your point when I just said that my mother and a lot of my friends (who are nice people) have been fuckd over by asshole men.
I'm in a lot of groups. It is very obvious that A LOT of nice girls are cheated on and treated poorly.
In general, the amount of asshole men out there, far excedes the amount of bitchy women.
Being nice doesn't have much to do with being homosexual. Though both are far more common in men in women: there are far more bi-sexual women than men.
Well tbh I wouldn't know...
I just know when it comes to attraction between guys and girls. Majority of females go for "bad boys" because they're intriguing and cool to them or something. Just wondering when it comes to girls dating girls, does the same rule apply or not? I feel that most would go for a lesbian who has a strong personality and is real bad ass, looks wise especially. Maybe this is a weird way to think. Maybe because when I see the bad ass type chicks I think it's cool and would think a lot of females that are more on the feminine side, would be attracted to that.
I'm femme Tom boy but like femme girls that are down to earth like myself. I don't think they'd be interested in me tho, I feel they would more so be inclined to date "bad girls" or more butch looking ones..
When they say opposites attract, what they really mean is that femininity is attracted to masculinity, and vice versa. This is why there's always a 'top' and 'bottom' to a gay relationship.
If you are attracted to girls who are more feminine than you are, then embrace your masculine side: lift weights, take risks, be emotionally tough and not a wet rag. You don't need a tattoo or a 'bad gurl' image to be masculine.
Nice...what does that even mean?
Does it mean rude or being a jerk or is it about sex?
I think every girl (and gay man) wants a bad boy who will be good just for her/him.
I could be married to a sweet guy right now, but I was too obsessed over the guy who left me on "read" who I wanted to turn into a sweet guy.