The video.
I got to high school. Not alot of experience with boys at all. Started talking to this one guy. I liked him alot, he was funny, charming, cute, and was always good company. Although he kept our "thing" as a secret. No one knew about us. I really liked the guy. He pressured me for sex all the time, but I didnt want to. So he told me to make him a video of me masturbating and he promised to never ask sex from me ever again. He also said after he watched the vid he would delete it. He said that if I would make it, it would prove that I trust him, and we are moving a farther step into r relationship. I found out he was keeping everything secretive because he was doing the same thing with other girls. After an entire year had passed of us not talking, once I finally got a bf that cares about me, he sends my video around to everyone and it spread like wild fire. It ruined my reputation, I lost most of my friends. People would have this video of me on their phones, emails, etc...