You worry to much. Tell them you are a "promise keeper" and worship Nancy Reagan!!! Hey - come on - those people are around - they even post on this site! But seriously ...
You might want to talk to your ex-girlfriend and see what she says - then decide on a communication strategy that meets both your needs. It doesn't need to be elaborate or untrue and can meet both of your needs for privacy.
An example of a communication game plan would be that if asked the response is "that is a private matter," and if pressed the most said is "we decided to wait." Beyond that there is nothing to discuss. Stop framing virginity as an embarrassment - to be virgins and teens (or virgins period) is no shame and you are not responsible for other people's smutty assumptions.
Your sex drive is also no one's business. But you should definitely talk to you Doc about your low libido and be more concerned about your health than your gossipy friends.
The revealing of my secret will destroy my social life
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You worry to much. Tell them you are a "promise keeper" and worship Nancy Reagan!!! Hey - come on - those people are around - they even post on this site! But seriously ...
You might want to talk to your ex-girlfriend and see what she says - then decide on a communication strategy that meets both your needs. It doesn't need to be elaborate or untrue and can meet both of your needs for privacy.
An example of a communication game plan would be that if asked the response is "that is a private matter," and if pressed the most said is "we decided to wait." Beyond that there is nothing to discuss. Stop framing virginity as an embarrassment - to be virgins and teens (or virgins period) is no shame and you are not responsible for other people's smutty assumptions.
Your sex drive is also no one's business. But you should definitely talk to you Doc about your low libido and be more concerned about your health than your gossipy friends.