The reason i won't date black women

It has nothing to do with the color of your skin. It doesn't mean that I think that black women are unintelligent, unattractive, not sexy, or promiscuous. I don't date black women because of their attitude.

I find many black women attractive. That's not because I have some creepy fetish toward black women, but I just find all types of women attractive. I find many white or oriental women attractive too. But I won't date black women simply because I find so many of them to blame their flaws, ( the same flaws that we all have) on racism. 'He doesn't like my friends because their black like me. ' 'he just wants me because he has a fetish about black bitches'. No, we want to get to know you because we think you are sexy or pretty, or maybe even beautiful, or maybe you have a great personality, not because we have some fetish about black women. 'He dumped me because I'm black'. No, I dumped you because I brought you to meet my family who accepted you with welcome arms, and you walked around in front of them with a giant chip on your shoulder, as if you were being ostracized, which you weren't.

Black women, please accept that white men aren't out to get you. Maybe we just think you are just another likeable girl whom we would like to get to know better without you seeing some alterior motive. If you don't like us, don't give us your time.

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  • angryblonde

    I’m just going to say not all black women are like that and the fact that you’re assuming all black women have attitudes is racist in itself and since you are racist without realizing it, I don’t blame whatever black woman that broke your heart. Sounds like your family said/did something without even realizing it. Also, you had an experience to make you think this way, correct? Don’t you think a situation might’ve happened to that black woman that made her more weary??? No pun intended, but not everything is black and white my friend.

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  • Haha, yeah my 32 year old ass would look really not creepy trying to talk to college girls! Lol

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe you can date African women?

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  • I could if I knew any. I see what you are saying, but I live in an area where the only black women are born in America.

    Also, it's not like I am specifically looking for black women. I like all women.

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