I think that for many people who do this, they loathe this 'nice requirement' even more than the people they encounter.
It is burdensome, and like I say 'learned' so I don't think most of them would take it as an attack on them personally.
Also like I can speak from personal experience, that we the 'nice people' are raised with the fallacious concept that to be assertive, direct, disagree, any normal human behavior is MEAN.
And this is what I was hoping to dismantle, but I could have been more effective in doing so.
The problems with being nice
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I'm not sure I totally agree.
I think that for many people who do this, they loathe this 'nice requirement' even more than the people they encounter.
It is burdensome, and like I say 'learned' so I don't think most of them would take it as an attack on them personally.
Also like I can speak from personal experience, that we the 'nice people' are raised with the fallacious concept that to be assertive, direct, disagree, any normal human behavior is MEAN.
And this is what I was hoping to dismantle, but I could have been more effective in doing so.
Links of this nature would help as well