I get your point. I pretend to be nice all the time when I couldn't care less because it builds you a reputation, etc.
It's not that I'm doing it to be mean, it's just convenient for both parties and to have a reason to not get invested in drama you really can't be bothered with.
Problem is, this one view of nice people you have is just a view of a type of person who's always nice, not niceness itself.
While I'll agree people you described exist, there are also people who truly are selfless and aim to be nice to spread positivity.
So don't hate on nice people just due to this specific type if "nice" people because you cant always find out the motives of nice people.
Totally agree. Left that out for brevity. But yeah I live in Asia in a place where there are so many actually nice people. Not that they don't exist in the west and other parts of the world as well. But it was actually these people that inspired this post.
The problems with being nice
← View full post
I get your point. I pretend to be nice all the time when I couldn't care less because it builds you a reputation, etc.
It's not that I'm doing it to be mean, it's just convenient for both parties and to have a reason to not get invested in drama you really can't be bothered with.
Problem is, this one view of nice people you have is just a view of a type of person who's always nice, not niceness itself.
While I'll agree people you described exist, there are also people who truly are selfless and aim to be nice to spread positivity.
So don't hate on nice people just due to this specific type if "nice" people because you cant always find out the motives of nice people.
--
rayb12
5 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
-1
-1
Totally agree. Left that out for brevity. But yeah I live in Asia in a place where there are so many actually nice people. Not that they don't exist in the west and other parts of the world as well. But it was actually these people that inspired this post.