The guy i’m dating says he likes big boobs

so the guy i’ve been dating (we’ve hung out like 3 times) but have been talking for a long time. he mentioned to me that he likes tits and i’m pretty sure he likes big boobs... i don’t really have big boobs though. if i wear a push-up bra they’ll seem bigger but idk i feel kinda insecure and that he might not think i’m a 10/10... any advice?

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  • Fugazi,again

    Tell him you like guys with big dicks

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    • LornaMae

      Best advice!

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      • Aethylfritha

        And big wallets

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        • LornaMae

          Haha, the big wallet wouldn't impress me, tho.

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          • Aethylfritha

            It would only impress me if he bought be a car!

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  • litelander8

    Don’t wear a push-up bra. It’s a trick that creates disappointment.

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    • Iszzy123

      “Reality is often disappointing”
      —Thanos

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      • love that. new fav quote

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    • LornaMae

      True, kinda like clothes from the Wish store. Specially if she takes 2 months to show him her tits.

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      Disagree

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      • litelander8

        Dude. A chick has a visual set of C’s and she takes her top off and they’re barely A’s, a dude it gonna feel some type of way. Not necessarily bc if tit size but bc if the fake-out.

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        • d0esnormalmatter

          That's just not how I see it. To me, the smaller size is made up for by the fact its fully visible. And the constant reminder of boobs is good when they look bigger in clothes.

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          • john66669

            doesnormalmatter youre right
            whoops thought your comment was the one above no youre wrong

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        • john66669

          litelander8 youre right

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  • RoseIsabella

    Tell him that you normally prefer handsome guys with substantial penises that are larger than his.

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  • Boojum

    Lots of people have preferences and some idea of what their ideal mate would look like, but most people are sensible enough to be flexible about most things.

    Many women have a strong preference for guys that are noticeably taller than themselves. If you feel the same, ask yourself if you can imagine how you might still be comfortable dating a guy the same height as yourself or even shorter if there were many other things about him that you found amazing. (Hint: if you can't do that, then you're incredibly fucking shallow. And I say that as a 6'4" guy...)

    As far as breasts are concerned, yeah, many guys are fascinated by them and some are obsessed, but "big" is a purely subjective term when it comes to boobs. In any case, it seems that the guy hasn't actually said that he likes big boobs - you've only assumed this to be the case. You say you don't have large breasts and you've been with this guy more than once. If he's into boobs, you can be sure he checked out what your chest was like the first time he met you and he has a fair idea of what's going on there. Since he apparently wanted to see you again, I think it's fairly safe to assume he's not one of those guy's who's obsessed with enormous hooters. Some guys actually have a thing for neat little tits, and I think the majority of guys really don't care much what size they are, as long as they're available to play with.

    Oh, and BTW, trying to be a 10/10 is a mug's game. You're no more perfect than any other human being and you never will be. Strive to accept yourself as you are. The best any of us can reasonably hope for from life is finding someone who accepts us as we are and who has faults and quirks that we can live with or even enjoy.

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  • Nikclaire

    If a guy is so obsessed with big boobs that he would reject you for not measuring up, consider youself lucky for dodging a bullet. Who'd want to be with someone so shallow.

    I have tiny boobs and no one has ever complained. Just relax.

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      "He likes boobs and I'm pretty sure he likes big boobs"

      I wouldn't say hes obsessed with big boobs. This mf doesn't even know for sure. She needs to chill.

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      • Nikclaire

        Agreed. Wanting to be a 10/10 is kind of a giveaway regarding O.P's mindset.

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        • d0esnormalmatter

          Ya who says that? "I'm worried he doesn't think I'm a 10" bitch if you are a 10 you would know it. But a fricking 4 on your scale is still a girl 90% of guys would kill to smash. Women always are overly concerned if their looks are good enough even though most guys are too desperate to care.

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    • john66669

      Nikclaire youre right I don't get why so many women worry good men don't care true love is all that matters

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    If yall hit it off he can pay for the boob job

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  • Mammal-lover

    I like big dicks but you dont see me dating only guys with a big cock.
    I like black guys but you dont only see me dating black guys. You catch my meaning?

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    • john66669

      youre right Mama lover

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    Chief, this is much ado about nothing. Of course he likes boobs, and probably likes big boobs. That is all normal!

    You should not feel insecure however, because attraction can change! You need to let him build up an attraction to you not to mention the 1000 other variables that effect attractiveness.

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  • Bullheadbinow

    Psychologically speaking it would appear that your inadequacy or the lack of proper mammary gland engorgement is directly proportional to his disproportionate genitalia thereby indirectly effecting his cognitive abilities to properly engage with flat chested women, in other wet words yourBF is likely a closet faggot, I know evade I like men’s cocks and big tts.

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    • why would he be in the closet bc he likes tits?

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  • Handyman

    Tell him you are the same. Let him worry about what it means.

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  • Toledorwb

    I like large breasts but the larger the more likely they look off. My girl has H cups ( implants) and she looks flawless. But whether or not you prefer larger breasts doesn’t mean that smaller ones can’t be perfect and fun too.

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  • randypete

    I love all boobs big small

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  • Aethylfritha

    Its normal that some guys like big boobs but i dont think its THE defining factor in most cases. If hes obsessed maybe he should get implants and play with his own boobies.

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  • DIO

    I'm pretty sure your boobs are fine. Big boobs are ugly anyway.

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    • john66669

      not true big breast are hot but theres more to love then breast

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      • DIO

        NO. They are ugly as fuck. Especially fake ones.

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        • john66669

          you sound gay big breast are great

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          • i heard only gay men pretend to like fake tits

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            • john66669

              hahaha sure

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      • like what

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        • john66669

          personality the kind of person you are a lot of little things including having a good heart being a loving caring honest loyal person if all someone cares about is looks that isn't love

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          • yeah true... sometimes i forget about that

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            • john66669

              let me ask you a question if you found someone who loves cares is honest loyal and respects you would you care about his weight height dick size you see theres far more important things then these things and anyone who dates you who cares only about looks is a shallow jerk who doesn't care about you

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  • EnglishLad

    Who says you have to be the most perfect 10/10 woman all the time? You're setting yourself up for a fall if you're constantly trying to be something you're not.

    If he's dating you but he generally goes for girls with bigger boobs than yours, then he can see past the size of your tits and appreciates your other qualities.

    He's legit just stating which type he normally goes for. Stop overthinking everything.

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  • GaelicPotato

    Then grow bigger boobs.

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  • bigbudchonga

    You don't need to be a 10/10 unless he's the men of all men. As people grow they reform their expectations to realistic levels. I wouldn't worry too much.

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    • he’s 28 tho lol and i’m 21

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      • bigbudchonga

        Your SMV value is at its absolute peak, whilst his is barely getting started. Unless he's like a ridiculously well paid banker or famous then he's not going to be getting the pick of all the girls.

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  • Mcochik

    Don’t ever feel insecure yes a big pair of tits is great but as long as you have a nice pair of nipples to suck in during sex that’s all that matters .... how old are you btw ?

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    • i’m 21 and he’s 28. i mean they’re not tiny but they’re okay idk, more on smaller side but i have good nipples lol

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      • john66669

        look if a man truly loves you it wont matter and if it doesn't work out im available

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        • how old are u

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          • john66669

            Anonymous post author im 26 miss and can tell you real good men don't care

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          • john66669

            26 why

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            • Boojum

              ...And I'm not all that far from being three time's John's age, and all my life-experience tells me that he's right on this one.

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            • haha ah jw(:

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