The good wife.

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I have a good wife. She's a great mother to our three kids. A great homemaker for us all. When she complains or we argue its because I fucked up. Almost always. The problem is I'm bored with her. So I sneak around doing things for excitement (Like using my hidden laptop to watch porn and visit this site). I'm cheating on her with my secretary because she's so boring and predictable in bed. It's like she feels ashamed to let loose and try new things. I've been patient with her for years. I am only the second man she has ever been with. And it looks like I'll be fucking a good friend of hers very soon. I'm blessed with a good wife. But is it normal to have grown tired of her?

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Cheating ain't gonna help anything. What you're doing to you good wife is wrong, and you know it! Boredom is not an excuse to be a shitty person. She's not the problem here, you are! Stop watching porn, cheating and go see a therapist instead. Also start going to twelve step meetings for sex addiction. Someday she'll catch your sorry ass and then the shit will hit the fan.

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    • Demarcus
      8 years ago

      Nailed it RoseIsabella.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Bingo bango! *high fives*... and Paws Up!

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        • Demarcus
          8 years ago

          (h5)

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    • mystery7
      8 years ago

      well said!

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Thanks!

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        • ThingOne
          8 years ago

          Wrong-o. He should be ethical and file for a divorce immediately. Bad sex and sexual neglect is cruelty. It is unforgivable, and she is the one that deserves to pay the sorry price for it.

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          • theseeker
            8 years ago

            You are a prime example of what's wrong with society today. If it's that bad, then you leave, but you don't fuck around on your partner. To say that she deserves to be cheated on is the biggest bunch of BS I've heard!

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            • ThingOne
              8 years ago

              I'm not saying that. She deserves to be divorced for her sexual cruelty. It is only fair that she live with the harsh financial consequences of single parenthood. She is what's wrong with many marriages today, and deserves sympathy from no one.

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          • Demarcus
            8 years ago

            ThingOne is a troll...

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Romance is a two way street. The must be plenty of information online that would help your marriage, so I can only conclude you don't care enough to. That's pretty sad.

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    • ReginaFalange
      8 years ago

      Well put.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    It's normal. But it's sad that you won't fix it.

    If this shit ever catches up with you and it likely will, it's going to fuck your kids up. Just think of that.

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    • charli.m
      8 years ago

      This.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    I suppose it's normal that you've grown tired. That happens. However, the way you've handled your relationship isn't. If you're bored, how about being honest with her about how to makes things better. If that hasn't worked, then you leave. The fact that you would rather fuck around on her shows a lot about your character, or lack of character in this case.

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  • Demarcus
    8 years ago

    Perfect example of the 80/20 rule. You are satisfied with 80% of the wife and out looking for 20% elsewhere.
    You could prob find the 20% from her if you just approached her. Maybe she's bored with you too.
    If you really love and value those kids, dump the secretary, wife finds out and you're toast. With 3 kids on what you'd have to pay for child support, you'd be living below a welfare monger on food stamps.

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  • bucho's_butt
    8 years ago

    This was a disturbing post to read. It's not the content of it, it's the way you chose your words.

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  • LooneyLou
    8 years ago

    Really dude? Have the decency to confront your woman before you 1) break it off and 2) sleep with someone else. In that order. Why dont people get this? If you dont like who you are with and you won't or can't fix it, leave them BEFORE another person enters the picture. That woman had your children, have some respect.

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  • Agoodguy2
    8 years ago

    It happens to all of us. In our world, thats completely upside down, shit happens
    In my fathers day cheating was not excepted. Now I meet people, we talk about
    swinging, threesomes, and how couples go to burning man to get some strange stuff. you either have values and character or you don't. I myself have lost it all.

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