Alright, this is coming from a girl who had her first kiss at 22 years old, first real boyfriend at 25 and was a virgin until this man. I used to ask myself the same question. I am not tall or super thin, but as I found out different men have different perceptions of beauty. As for myself, the conclusion that I came to was that a lot of it was because I was scared. Guys would ask for my number and sometimes I would give it to them but then when they would call or text I wouldn't respond. I thought 'i can't go out with this guy. I don't know how to date! He won't want me once he finds out that I've never had a boyfriend and am still a virgin.' Come to find out, its not necessarily true. With some men, yes it may be true, but not all. To be honest with you I'm glad I waited with the virginity thing. I had opportunities which I'm glad I didn't take. Just be you and eventually someone will see just how special you are and how perfect you may be for them.
The college freshman who has never been kissed.
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Alright, this is coming from a girl who had her first kiss at 22 years old, first real boyfriend at 25 and was a virgin until this man. I used to ask myself the same question. I am not tall or super thin, but as I found out different men have different perceptions of beauty. As for myself, the conclusion that I came to was that a lot of it was because I was scared. Guys would ask for my number and sometimes I would give it to them but then when they would call or text I wouldn't respond. I thought 'i can't go out with this guy. I don't know how to date! He won't want me once he finds out that I've never had a boyfriend and am still a virgin.' Come to find out, its not necessarily true. With some men, yes it may be true, but not all. To be honest with you I'm glad I waited with the virginity thing. I had opportunities which I'm glad I didn't take. Just be you and eventually someone will see just how special you are and how perfect you may be for them.