The college freshman who has never been kissed.

flirt back, and kiss

If a guy flirt don't let him do all the work.

My sign for telling when a guy likes me is when he approaches me does all the little things checking me out, making cute conversation.

To show that i like him i basically say that i want to see him again. In a few cases i ask him for his number

maybe... they think that you're too good for them :P

Flirt back babe. If you like a guy, go for it. Just make sure the guy is a serious guy. Not some wannabe pretty-boy douche that thinks he is cool. I'm a guy and my advice is: Go for the serious guy that is emotionally strong, that will always be on your side and that has a good sense of humor.

You are saving it for someone special. Its understandable and commendable.

Sounds like you're not being pro-active enough. If you're even remotely pretty (Which sounds like you are) than you have to be more aggressive. Yes the guy is supposed to make the moves. You have to respond more to the guys hitting on you. I bet that every single guy that has tried hitting on you, would have sex with you if you asked. I'm not saying you should go around being a slut, but you could if you really wanted too. As a guy I'd love it if a girl responded easily and didn't play games. Make it very clear that you're interested, by touching your hair and flirting back. Also give the guy a sensual hug.

Alright, this is coming from a girl who had her first kiss at 22 years old, first real boyfriend at 25 and was a virgin until this man. I used to ask myself the same question. I am not tall or super thin, but as I found out different men have different perceptions of beauty. As for myself, the conclusion that I came to was that a lot of it was because I was scared. Guys would ask for my number and sometimes I would give it to them but then when they would call or text I wouldn't respond. I thought 'i can't go out with this guy. I don't know how to date! He won't want me once he finds out that I've never had a boyfriend and am still a virgin.' Come to find out, its not necessarily true. With some men, yes it may be true, but not all. To be honest with you I'm glad I waited with the virginity thing. I had opportunities which I'm glad I didn't take. Just be you and eventually someone will see just how special you are and how perfect you may be for them.

I know how ya feel, im almost 18 and never had a boyfriend ever . Your not alone haha . Keep your head up, you'll find someone

normal im similar (im a guy)(except im antisocial and apparently not pretty lol) dont let it bother you itll happen when it happens no point in rushing it , most college guys are perverted drunks anyway (well at my school anyway lol)

Hopefully by the time you graduate college, you will fully realize that normal spans a much larger terrain than its counterpart.

Sometimes us nice guys are intimidated by a beautiful girl, and it takes us a while to gather the courage to ask you out. Don't worry,I'm sure you'll find someone soon.

I'm perfectly all for the right guy but from the way the story was written, it would seem to me that you're not responding to their signals at all (do correct me if I'm wrong). You will only know if he's "the right guy" if you go out on a few dates and check him out. You cannot decide this just by taking one look at him.

There's nothing wrong with going out on the occasional dinner and coffee date, you know? See what happens next. Obviously, there's no intimacy until you're comfortable but you need to give these people a chance.

i am a college freshman and until this year i was the exact same way never been kissed never had a boyfriend still a virgin. honestly i would say to wait until you find that special guy dont just do it with anyone just because you feel alone. I had my first kiss about 3 months ago and im soo happy i waited until i found my boyfriend. im sure there is nothing wrong with you besides who wants to date a slut thats been with everyone? just hold out eventually the right guy will come along. although i dont think its right for you to be drinking but to each their own its your choice. ive just had some bad things happen to ppl i love that drank thats why i say that.

yeah either that or your unattractive. Most likely it is you, nothing is wrong with you but you probibly dont think it means anything to have meaningless sex with somebody you barly had the time to get to know. i think you should hold out for someone special, not saying you have to wait until marrage just somebody you feel right with, apparently that hasnt happend.

maybe your too pretty lol
or you send out signals that make them stop at a certain point
...but i guess it's more or lesss...normal(?)