That women abandon their husbands after having a baby?

Ask her what's wrong. Speculation won't get far.

Don't reckon you can get all wooshy about her and her feelings without know what they are first as if all women are saints bc they aren't , far from it.For all we know she might be in love with and humping the neighbour. Just saying.
But I do notice women change so much when they have kids it's really obvious from the outside.Some of them seem to feel or act like they're done. Like they've done their duty , they've got a man , got a kid , now I don't have to bother with anything anymore , at least that's how it seems sometimes.

post natal depression maybe?

Thanks tootsieroll :)

I know exactly what you are talking about. I have a very simular problem. After my son I have had what you call a change of heart. I cannot say that your wife and I have the same problem, or tell you how to fix it because i do not know how she is feeling and whats exactly going on with her. But I will tell you this, Very rarely do I have sexual interest for my husband. I hope this is not the case for you and your wife.
Be there for her, try not to get angry and be patient with her. I am sure her thoughts are running 100 mph, shes confused, scared, and worried. Not to mention she probably feels horrible about herself, and what this is doing to your marriage. I know I do. Maybe see if she would like to see a Psychiatrist. Hope this helps. Best of luck to the both of you.

Wow, that was some really nice comments friends. I'm really going to try and reach her on Venus from Mars!

Sounds liek there is something she is feeling and not talking to you about. confront her and ask her she is your wife! you ahve ot grab your marriage by the reigns before it goes under.

its none of the things people are saying .... your wife is a selfish snake ~ you'll see that in the end, coz the truth has a bell.