That my husband is obsessed with...

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My husband is constantly looking at porn and searching for other women, like joining hookup sites ect. He trys to hide it. He deletes his txt messages. He always doing something on his phone, He clears everything off his phone after every use, every day!. When i ask what hes doing, he just says nothing or says hes on facebook. I look at his phone every now an then an when I do I always seem to come across these things...

I have asked him several times to stop because it hurts my feelings...of course he always said he would..but here we are again.
The porn and women he looks at makes me feel horrible about myself. Like I'm not sexy or good enough for him. I pretend to not know what he's doing and act happy...but my heart breaks every day knowing he doesn't care enough to stop. He says he loves me more then anything...if that were true he wouldn't be doing these things!

If that's how he is going to be should we even stay together?!

I'm so tired of trying to be good enough for him, I'm about ready to give up on our relationship!

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  • (s)aint
    6 years ago | pl

    I think porn is fine, let him have his masturbation habits to himself.

    BUT joining hook-up sites!? Fuck that shit.

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  • Uncle-ThunderJunk
    6 years ago | pl

    Dump that loser and give me a call sweetie.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago | pl

      Haha. good one.

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  • MATCHES250
    6 years ago | pl

    Talk to him about it make sure you tell him what you feel!!!!!!

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  • pantychaffe
    6 years ago | pl

    Basic NCIS: Evidence found, confirm details, keep it moving #DontStayPlayes

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago | pl

    3 things u could do:
    1 = talk to him about it and say you will leave him if he doesnt explaines it
    2 = slap him in the face and leave, 4evaah
    3 = give him good good porn in real life, yeaahh

    #iamsoweird

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  • sourgrapes
    6 years ago | pl

    No its not bloody well normal.ffs.

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago | pl

    porn is fine but the hook up sites are not

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago | pl

    He's a sex addict! The porn is one thing, but the hook-up sites are inexcusable. Tell him that he needs to go to recovery and see a sex therapist or else you can't stay with him.

    https://saa-recovery.org/
    http://www.cosa-recovery.org/

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  • squirtmycum
    6 years ago | pl

    my wife jerks me off while i watch porn. i caught her masterbating to bbc. no problems

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  • mrbrownfinger7
    6 years ago | pl

    take the hint, you're obviously not doing it for him.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago | pl

      If I'm not doing it for him, then why stay together? If roles were reversed I would leave and find someone new freely so there's no hiding it.
      We're still together after all the bs so he must like something about me...or he just thinks he can do what he wants an I won't leave him..

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      • fluffy1uv
        6 years ago | pl

        Because people like to stay comfortable, and don't like to hurt people. It's much easier to just let them find out then to break up with them

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  • Jaxxx69me
    6 years ago | pl

    All guys watch porn . It's not to piss our women off ,it's just when we jack off we are either fantasizing about watching the ppl fucking , and we know what parts of our dicks to touch while jacking off.my wife used to get mad but got over it when I told her it helps me go to sleep . I know I need to sleep after busting a nut or 2 lol----The texting other girls gotta stop doe

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago | pl

    Thank you everyone. You all have very good points to the situation. Hopefully things will work out for the best.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago | pl

    I gotta say the porn doesn't really bother me that much.... it's the lying and hiding it..also the whole messing around on the hookup sites...

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    • Cuntsiclestick
      6 years ago | pl

      The porn is fine, but if he's searching for others, then your time is running out. You need to put aside the "I love you" feelings, cut your losses, and break up. Someone like him is not worth your time. If he actually respected you he wouldn't do that.

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