That my husband calls me names when we argue?
I asked my husband about a potential large purchase last night and instead of discussing it, he got mad. He called me a bitch, stupid, and mental. I have stopped talking to him. He apologized for yelling and I said that I won't speak to someone who calls me names. To that he replied, "give me a fucking break".
We have been married for 30 years, this is not new behavior.