That i hate knowing people have sex?

I know it's pretty immature and unfair of me,
but if I know people close to me have sex,
it just makes me angry or depressed.

If you haven't already guessed,
I am still a virgin and
I've never even had a relationship before.
It's due to a lot of personal issues.

What's strange though is that I don't even want to have sex.
I know it doesn't make sense, trust me,
but that's just how I feel.
Sex to me isn't something that looks fun or romantic.
Honestly I think it's pointless
unless you're trying to have a baby.

And if I know anyone close to me has sex,
it makes me feel awkward to be around them.
Again, I know it's unfair and just plain rude of me,
but I can't control how I feel about this.

What do you make of this?

Is It Normal?
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  • You sound like you have some problems, but at least you are aware it is not normal.

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  • We can't control our feelings. As long as you don't let them get out of control and take them out on those people which you mentioned.
    As for not wanting to have sex, that is fine too, it's not for everyone.

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  • i heard my neighbors sometimes
    Horrible
    I love having sex though

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  • It has happened to me too, I always thought I was the only freak!!

    I kinda freaked out when people told me / got depressed / thought it was weird to speak to them / didn't know what to mention / avoided sexual things ....

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  • It seems to me like you have an unrealistic and, frankly, unhealthy attitude towards sex.

    Your virginity may well be contributing to this, either because you're quite young and you don't understand, or you're older and you've not felt sexual intimacy longer than you really should have that you're finding it difficult to understand or relate to.

    Do you come from a religious family by any chance?

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  • I'm not bothered by it, but yeah...it's pretty awkward lol...when your BFF tells you that xD

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  • I hate when my eyelashes don't cooperate.

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  • What irritates me is that they are so irresponsible about it.

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  • I feel the exact same way.

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  • They do though.

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