That i don't like my aunt for this reason?

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I have an aunt that can be nice sometimes, she is addictide on fittnes stuff, which would be ok, but the issue is that she calls anyone that is not thin as her including an average person fat and she kinda show off for being young, even if the person she is showing of is only a year older. What I also don't like about her is that she wants everything in her taste, she is also a party lover, which would be ok, but she convinced my grandparents into making a huge party instead of the travel(which was what they actually wanted). I usually hate a lot of stuff, but they are mostly fictional characters, objects and historical figures, however I try my best to don't dislike people that I convive with, specially because she is the mother of my coolest cousin, and even though I always try to see the best on people I can this on me being happy around someone that in my opinion is self-centred. I am being terrible to don't like a family member because of that? And don't liking a family member for this reason is normal?

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  • Meowypowers
    2 years ago

    People with extreme agendas that try and force them on others are annoying, regardless of how healthy they are.

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    People can be jerks best to blank them out.

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  • LornaMae
    2 years ago

    Yup! Totally normal to hate people who are assholes. Family or not.

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  • [Old Memory]
    2 years ago

    Yeah my aunt is a bitch and you don't need to like your entire family.

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  • CountessDouche
    2 years ago

    Oh totally normal to find extended family irritating, and that can change throughout your life. I have aunts that drove me crazy as a teen, who I absolutely adore as an adult.

    Your aunt's behavior does sound irritating as fuck, but you need to accept that you can't change or control it. This woman is gonna be a part of your life, especially since you are close to your cousin.

    You can't control other people's behavior. What you can control is how you react to it. I think it would be good for you to sit down and think of some good qualities she has (maybe she's kind or a good cook or a great mom) and focus on that. Think about why her attitude bothers you specifically (maybe it makes you feel insecure or maybe you don't relate to her being judgemental) and think about how you can move past that and just let it go.

    Family can be annoying as fuck sometimes, but they will be part of your life unless you decide to cut them out. Instead of wishing they would change, which goes nowhere, you can change how much you allow them to get under your skin.

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