That i can't make my bf come?

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Hi!

First of all, forgive my English, I'm French. I'll try to be as clear as i can!

I'm looking for some advice here. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and there's this issue that gets more and more annoying.
We have sex all the time and it's great but he can't come and tends to get soft if he's not "leading" it.
He never came with me on top because I can't be as fast as he is when he's on top of/behind me, same deal with blowjobs, i only gave him one orgasm although i've always been very good at it and easily made all my partners come. He enjoys it but his glans is insensitive and basically i'd need to deepthroat him at 100km per hour to get anywhere...

It is frustrating. I want to make him come, this situation makes me feel so fucking useless and bad. I used to be the queen of blowjobs, I mean i love it and I'm talented but I feel more and more helpless.

I read things about the death grip syndrom (lol) which is basically the result of masturbating too fast with too tight a grip. It'd make your penis less sensitive to sex with a partner.

Anybody had/has the same problem? Thank you very much for any kind of advice/personal account :)

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  • weallhidestuff
    10 years ago | pl

    I've been trying to find this post for days, im a guy and I have the same problem I have no idea why, I luv her blowjobs and handjobs, but I can never finish, I always have to take it into my own hands, she said it doesn't bother her anymore but we both know thats not true, I want this to stop and I dont know how, plz dont hold it against him, if u love him, try to work with him, goodluck

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      Do you wank super fast with a super tight grip too? If so, read about the death grip syndrom, it sounds funny but it could actually explain your and my boyfriend's problem.

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago | pl

    Time for him to seek a doctor, there is help for that

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      Yeah sure but I thought I could find some help somewhere on the internet before having to tie him up and drag him to a doctor. He's pretty strong and heavy.

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  • dinz
    10 years ago | pl

    Have a gun to his head, he will cum in no time (and possibly poop his pants) but hey, we can't be too fussy and make best of the outcome OR

    Talk to your partner and find out what arouses him. Considering he is French I myself would prepare myself for a really weird fetish.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      Thanks dinz, now he wants me to give him blowjobs while rubbing snails on my tits :(

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  • Living_Too_Late
    10 years ago | pl

    Le probleme est quelque part dans son esprit. (Forgive my French)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      Nothing to forgive here, perfect sentence ;)

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