Congratulations on finding yourself the Mom of a lazy adult boy.
A living-together relationship should be a partnership, especially if both people are employed.
You shouldn't need to make a chore-rota or track how many hours you each spend doing things that are beneficial to both of you, but you should both have a feeling that you're each doing a reasonably equal share of household tasks.
You've got a choice: accept that he's a lazy slob who will take as much as he can with little thought for you, or tell him that things have to change. He will then have a choice of either growing up, or going off to look for a new live-in housekeeper and cook.
If you let this slide, it will not get any better. Maybe he's just infantile, inconsiderate, slob who is capable of mending his ways, but he could simply be a user by nature.
Oh, and you've been together six years? There's a good reason why "seven year itch" is a cliché. It's around that point that a lot of relationships flounder due to complacency and boredom.
that i am starting to resent my fiance
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Congratulations on finding yourself the Mom of a lazy adult boy.
A living-together relationship should be a partnership, especially if both people are employed.
You shouldn't need to make a chore-rota or track how many hours you each spend doing things that are beneficial to both of you, but you should both have a feeling that you're each doing a reasonably equal share of household tasks.
You've got a choice: accept that he's a lazy slob who will take as much as he can with little thought for you, or tell him that things have to change. He will then have a choice of either growing up, or going off to look for a new live-in housekeeper and cook.
If you let this slide, it will not get any better. Maybe he's just infantile, inconsiderate, slob who is capable of mending his ways, but he could simply be a user by nature.
Oh, and you've been together six years? There's a good reason why "seven year itch" is a cliché. It's around that point that a lot of relationships flounder due to complacency and boredom.