Ask Your Question today
Last night i confirmed my (new)boyfriend was fingering his own ass & then rubbing his hands into his nose AFTER he thought i was asleep. I thought he may have been jacking off which is odd because we have a lot of fun sex. He is a 10- i dont get it. What kind of behavior is this?
Lots of women don't understand men's need to play with themselves and think that there must be something wrong or missing from their sex life. Plenty of married men will watch porn, masturbate, etc. and it's pretty much normal.
In your case, your boyfriend obviously likes the feel of fingers inside himself (which in itself, is normal. The prostate is up there, which is virtually a male G spot). If you're in a new relationship, perhaps he's not comfortable enough yet to ask you to do this for fear you'd be disgusted. If you're happy to do it with your own fingers (or a toy), why not suggest it out of the blue? He'd probably be overjoyed. If however, you're not willing to go anywhere near that area then I guess you just have to let him do it himself.
As for sniffing his fingers, who knows? Men aren't quite as well-behaved as women with their personal habits.
My fiancé does the exact same thing and as soon as he smells his finger he starts snoring! It's like a sleep aide or something. I hate to confront him but he does this practically every night and it normally wakes me up. I worry that he was molested as a child or is it just some freaky sex fetish.