Terrified of getting a girl pregnant

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Alot of boys my age are out trying to get as much pussy as possible, but I'm saving it for a girl I know and trust enough to be on the pill.

I'll got condoms, but with their 98% success rate does scare me due to the 2% possibility of having my life really really changed. I don't want to be tied down to some random hook up for the rest of my life if some thing breaks.

I've looked into family planning but there is nothing really in contraception for men other then getting the snip and i'm might want kids some day.

I am probably being too irrational with my. I'm probably stressing out *way* to much over it. But 18 minutes of fun doesn't seem worth the risk of 18 years of responsibility = (

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  • ?Tiemeup?
    12 years ago

    Everybody is afraid and a couple of suggestions:
    1. See if this special lady is on the pill.
    2. Use 2 condoms.
    3. Don't do it in water!

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  • xxDreamWeaverxx
    12 years ago

    Congratulations, you're the responsible guy every girl would like to have!

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  • sillymerchantgirl
    12 years ago

    you seem like a responsible intelligent young gent !

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  • hardcandy
    12 years ago

    Use a condom and pull out before you orgasm. Don't deny yourself the sex. Besides, the pill makes girls less horny.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Why do you think they created oral and anal? Haha, anyways if she's on the pill and using a condom, you shouldn't worry, it's such a tiny % for her to get pregnant.

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  • NobodyKnows
    9 years ago

    Be VERY careful, not just with sex, but which girls you choose to have sex with. There are women who will actually lie about being on the pill, because they want to get pregnant on purpose. There is an entire culture out there of people who believe that if you want a baby, you should just "get pregnant," without being married or even informing your boyfriend of your intentions. Make sure the girl you're with is a responsible, sane, honest woman, and not someone who is--pardon me--trashy.

    For what it's worth, I am a woman, and I'm a feminist. But I've known far too many creeps and freaks to think that all females are innocent and smart. Psychos exist in both genders, and sane people of both genders must beware of them.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Even if he pulled out she could still get pregnant if the condom had split. It's still possible. But honestly, if she's on the pill, you're using a condom, there is very little chance of her getting pregnant.

    And whoever said the abortion thing, it's nice to know you have such a blunt view of such things.

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  • somerandom
    12 years ago

    Only 18 minutes?? That's pretty lame

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  • jenjen06
    12 years ago

    It's better to be super careful than get a girl pregnant then take off of raise a baby in a stressful environment :/

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    You are very weird sorry

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  • sir.kirk
    12 years ago

    Just pull out you pin dicked nancy

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  • nanimeow
    12 years ago

    I hate your ruin your thoughts on condoms but the pill is about just as effective. Nothing is 100% other than not having sex. Why don't you just find a girl who would get an abortion if pregnancy happened?

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    • NobodyKnows
      9 years ago

      What you say is true, BUT, using the pill AND a condom can reduce the risk of pregnancy majorly.

      As for the abortion thing, that may not work unless you REALLY know and trust your partner. Otherwise, people may lie about what they'd do if pregnancy occurred, because they're horny and just want to get it on.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    i guess you'll have to just wait until you're ready to have a kid to have sex.

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