Got it. Thanks! It's just he talks of her like she is a successful "college student" even though she dropped out of tech school. He talks about the money he has given her and then, party, drugs, etc. A year ago she friended me on Instagram so all of her party pics come to me. She probably doesn't even realize.
I put 2+2 together and realized the pattern. That's all. She will screw up her life and I hope she doesn't take him with her. But, if she does, there is nothing I can do.
Been there, done that, been burned. I don't and I don't plan to.
By the way, he gave his precious daughter $300 for tires... well, she bought the drug addict boyfriend a 50in flatscreen TV and $80 video game. Do you think my friend will react? Hell no. He has no power.
That was an awful thing to do with her father's money. She's probably a drug addict too or at the very least pathetically codependent. My advice for your friend would be if he wants to help out his daughter he should give her the material things she needs help with and no more money. If your friend chooses to take my advice and his daughter feels hurt or insulted then she can just go without.
God forbid she goes without! Two cars, money for a condo which I talked him into holding because the boyfriend is a well known drug addict. My logic was "if you continue to provide for her, He will NEVER leave". But, my friend is lazy and gives into her pathetic pity parade.
She will get hers, no doubt and as far as my friend, he will understand at some point down the road... hopefully.
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Got it. Thanks! It's just he talks of her like she is a successful "college student" even though she dropped out of tech school. He talks about the money he has given her and then, party, drugs, etc. A year ago she friended me on Instagram so all of her party pics come to me. She probably doesn't even realize.
I put 2+2 together and realized the pattern. That's all. She will screw up her life and I hope she doesn't take him with her. But, if she does, there is nothing I can do.
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Whatever you do don't give him any money.
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Been there, done that, been burned. I don't and I don't plan to.
By the way, he gave his precious daughter $300 for tires... well, she bought the drug addict boyfriend a 50in flatscreen TV and $80 video game. Do you think my friend will react? Hell no. He has no power.
I'm just laughing it off at this point.
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That was an awful thing to do with her father's money. She's probably a drug addict too or at the very least pathetically codependent. My advice for your friend would be if he wants to help out his daughter he should give her the material things she needs help with and no more money. If your friend chooses to take my advice and his daughter feels hurt or insulted then she can just go without.
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God forbid she goes without! Two cars, money for a condo which I talked him into holding because the boyfriend is a well known drug addict. My logic was "if you continue to provide for her, He will NEVER leave". But, my friend is lazy and gives into her pathetic pity parade.
She will get hers, no doubt and as far as my friend, he will understand at some point down the road... hopefully.
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Is she a drug addict too?