You’re right, a man inviting a woman over to his house is normally code for sexual activity. When it comes to dating as an asexual I believe that early honesty is the best policy, if the two of you are incompatible it’s better to find that out before getting to attached.
How about saying something like, “I really enjoyed our date and would like to see you again, however before we take this any further you should know that I’m asexual...” and then say something about how far you are willing to go with a partner and your timelines for that.
It’s worth noting that for the vast majority of allosexual people a relationship without sex is a deal breaker so steel yourself for that before sending the message. Remember there are other people out there if this man isn’t for you.
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You’re right, a man inviting a woman over to his house is normally code for sexual activity. When it comes to dating as an asexual I believe that early honesty is the best policy, if the two of you are incompatible it’s better to find that out before getting to attached.
How about saying something like, “I really enjoyed our date and would like to see you again, however before we take this any further you should know that I’m asexual...” and then say something about how far you are willing to go with a partner and your timelines for that.
It’s worth noting that for the vast majority of allosexual people a relationship without sex is a deal breaker so steel yourself for that before sending the message. Remember there are other people out there if this man isn’t for you.
Good luck.