I guess I mentioned the going-thru-gender phases idea, only because other people's comments claimed you seem to not know your identity yet. I wondered, maybe they said that, in response to your writing that this may be just another major phase.
I don't think their disbelief, means you're not ready to choose your identity, if you want to (whether you're ready to choose or not, is up to you). I figured, it helps relieve pressure on a person, to know there's no shame in phasing in and out of gender identities. So if you wanted to identify as male now, you don't have to worry about people's claims that you don't know who you are yet- even if you do wind up phasing out. I hope I didn't worry you though... and make you think that phasing in & out would be the inevitable for you- sorry. That, also will be up to you, and it may not happen at all, for all we know (only you would know that).
Telling My Mom I Want to be a Guy
↑ View this comment's parent
← View full post
I guess I mentioned the going-thru-gender phases idea, only because other people's comments claimed you seem to not know your identity yet. I wondered, maybe they said that, in response to your writing that this may be just another major phase.
I don't think their disbelief, means you're not ready to choose your identity, if you want to (whether you're ready to choose or not, is up to you). I figured, it helps relieve pressure on a person, to know there's no shame in phasing in and out of gender identities. So if you wanted to identify as male now, you don't have to worry about people's claims that you don't know who you are yet- even if you do wind up phasing out. I hope I didn't worry you though... and make you think that phasing in & out would be the inevitable for you- sorry. That, also will be up to you, and it may not happen at all, for all we know (only you would know that).