I think I won't tell her for a while, and if I change my mind then there's nothing to worry about, but I'm also scared that she'll try to talk me out of it, like she does with everything.
I considered that I was thinking to fast, so that's part of the reason I won't tell her for now. Thank you for the advice, it really helped word my feelings quite well :)
I would say to ask someone about this. You sound very confused. I think they have therapists that deal with this type of issue and you will have to go through therapy if you get a sex change. Also just because you like boy things as a chick does not mean you necessarily have to get a sex change to be able to enjoy them. This kind of step is also permanent so you will not be able to turn back into a female after the procedure is performed. Perhaps you are just feeling restricted by the rules applied to men differently than women and you simply want fair treatment. That alone does not say you really feel like a man and no one else should make you feel like your not feminine for not wanting to wear dresses and act all poofy lala.
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I think I won't tell her for a while, and if I change my mind then there's nothing to worry about, but I'm also scared that she'll try to talk me out of it, like she does with everything.
I considered that I was thinking to fast, so that's part of the reason I won't tell her for now. Thank you for the advice, it really helped word my feelings quite well :)
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I would say to ask someone about this. You sound very confused. I think they have therapists that deal with this type of issue and you will have to go through therapy if you get a sex change. Also just because you like boy things as a chick does not mean you necessarily have to get a sex change to be able to enjoy them. This kind of step is also permanent so you will not be able to turn back into a female after the procedure is performed. Perhaps you are just feeling restricted by the rules applied to men differently than women and you simply want fair treatment. That alone does not say you really feel like a man and no one else should make you feel like your not feminine for not wanting to wear dresses and act all poofy lala.