It sounds as though you have a lot of confusion about all this. It also sounds as though you are under 18 and I believe you need to slow down and see how you feel about all this after you have had a few relationships. You may be rushing into something which may become a moot point by the time you are an adult.
I'm not judging you or saying you are wrong, just asking you not to commit to a course of action over a phase you may grow out of.
So, no, I wouldn't tell your mom anything right now. How you wear your hair isn't the big thing here; say you just want a change.
I think I won't tell her for a while, and if I change my mind then there's nothing to worry about, but I'm also scared that she'll try to talk me out of it, like she does with everything.
I considered that I was thinking to fast, so that's part of the reason I won't tell her for now. Thank you for the advice, it really helped word my feelings quite well :)
I would say to ask someone about this. You sound very confused. I think they have therapists that deal with this type of issue and you will have to go through therapy if you get a sex change. Also just because you like boy things as a chick does not mean you necessarily have to get a sex change to be able to enjoy them. This kind of step is also permanent so you will not be able to turn back into a female after the procedure is performed. Perhaps you are just feeling restricted by the rules applied to men differently than women and you simply want fair treatment. That alone does not say you really feel like a man and no one else should make you feel like your not feminine for not wanting to wear dresses and act all poofy lala.
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It sounds as though you have a lot of confusion about all this. It also sounds as though you are under 18 and I believe you need to slow down and see how you feel about all this after you have had a few relationships. You may be rushing into something which may become a moot point by the time you are an adult.
I'm not judging you or saying you are wrong, just asking you not to commit to a course of action over a phase you may grow out of.
So, no, I wouldn't tell your mom anything right now. How you wear your hair isn't the big thing here; say you just want a change.
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I think I won't tell her for a while, and if I change my mind then there's nothing to worry about, but I'm also scared that she'll try to talk me out of it, like she does with everything.
I considered that I was thinking to fast, so that's part of the reason I won't tell her for now. Thank you for the advice, it really helped word my feelings quite well :)
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I would say to ask someone about this. You sound very confused. I think they have therapists that deal with this type of issue and you will have to go through therapy if you get a sex change. Also just because you like boy things as a chick does not mean you necessarily have to get a sex change to be able to enjoy them. This kind of step is also permanent so you will not be able to turn back into a female after the procedure is performed. Perhaps you are just feeling restricted by the rules applied to men differently than women and you simply want fair treatment. That alone does not say you really feel like a man and no one else should make you feel like your not feminine for not wanting to wear dresses and act all poofy lala.