Maybe, but I doubt it. Most people who are against premarital sex are against it because of religious influence, not because they think sex is so special they wanna save it. Hormones are strong on teens, even females, and saving it for marriage would never even be a thing if it weren't for religion.
I think this is the fundamental disagreement that we have. I think maybe it was disagreement three?
I don't think sex is THAT special. Its extreme pleasure and close emotional bonding, but that bond is very reversible. I take 'casual' sexual encounters very seriously even if I just met the person. And trust me, I know what sex does to the brain. It makes a person want to come back for more, and it also develops strong feelings between the parties. But some people are more vulnerable to catching feelings that they don't really wanna catch ie. getting attached to someone from casual sex. Some people, myself included, can avoid MOST of these feelings they don't want and that makes casual sex less of s problem.
Contrary to what you think I think, I think monogamy should be the norm in society, and encouraging everyone to partake in casual sex is a stupid idea. I think more people could enjoy it but some personalities just aren't well suited for it.
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Maybe, but I doubt it. Most people who are against premarital sex are against it because of religious influence, not because they think sex is so special they wanna save it. Hormones are strong on teens, even females, and saving it for marriage would never even be a thing if it weren't for religion.
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I think saving sex for marriage is ideal, but at the very least sex is not something people should just casually hand out Kleenex tissues.
You don't know anything about what sex does to the brain.
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I think this is the fundamental disagreement that we have. I think maybe it was disagreement three?
I don't think sex is THAT special. Its extreme pleasure and close emotional bonding, but that bond is very reversible. I take 'casual' sexual encounters very seriously even if I just met the person. And trust me, I know what sex does to the brain. It makes a person want to come back for more, and it also develops strong feelings between the parties. But some people are more vulnerable to catching feelings that they don't really wanna catch ie. getting attached to someone from casual sex. Some people, myself included, can avoid MOST of these feelings they don't want and that makes casual sex less of s problem.
Contrary to what you think I think, I think monogamy should be the norm in society, and encouraging everyone to partake in casual sex is a stupid idea. I think more people could enjoy it but some personalities just aren't well suited for it.