Uhhh the whole point of setting up rules and boundaries is so EVERYONE can be happy and enjoy themselves in this weird and maybe awkward time. My bf and I talk about this OFTEN. The whole point is him wanting to see me make another guy come. It would be weird for me to screw the guy in a different room, that's like..cheating , in essence. Plus your wife knew ahead of time what you wanted then she did het own thing? So foul. That's a major no-no in the swingers lifestyle...that's just fucked up to the max in my opinion. Sounds like a serious conversation needs to be had....both of you clearly are not on the same page when it comes to having sex with other people. The fact that she turned mean and responded like "you didn't like it? Don't ask then..." She doesn't seem like a team player. At all. This post really bothers me......sex is very vulnerable . I'm so sorry this happened to you. She's in the wrong, no way are you selfish !!
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Uhhh the whole point of setting up rules and boundaries is so EVERYONE can be happy and enjoy themselves in this weird and maybe awkward time. My bf and I talk about this OFTEN. The whole point is him wanting to see me make another guy come. It would be weird for me to screw the guy in a different room, that's like..cheating , in essence. Plus your wife knew ahead of time what you wanted then she did het own thing? So foul. That's a major no-no in the swingers lifestyle...that's just fucked up to the max in my opinion. Sounds like a serious conversation needs to be had....both of you clearly are not on the same page when it comes to having sex with other people. The fact that she turned mean and responded like "you didn't like it? Don't ask then..." She doesn't seem like a team player. At all. This post really bothers me......sex is very vulnerable . I'm so sorry this happened to you. She's in the wrong, no way are you selfish !!